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I was surfing YouTube and look what I stumble upon.
Two different youtube videos of bald men giving bluepilled responses to my post months ago. I am now spreading the truth across YouTube somehow.
And these 2 guys are tall, decent head shape, and good face. They could survive the stigma of baldness because they have good qualities everywhere else. But let me break down these two characters
The first guy is barely avoiding being a baldcel. I think his height bailed him out but the dude admitted he was insecure about it. Overall boring.
The second guy is far worse. He is some sick con artist who has some disgusting bdsm fetish and he is selling bs to incels. He is literally a bald pua. He doesn't understand that he won the genetic lottery in everything but hair. He has height, face, race, head shape, jawline. Basically everything. I guarantee you if he had his hair though, he wouldn't be dating bdsm w****s. He'd be dating better women. These two fail to see how f*****g brutal balding can be so they spread nonsense like their content and someone like me won't fall for it.
But I'm back on the forums guys and I have a lot to share. I felt bad for awhile due to depression caused by my baldness but those 2 youtube videos basically inspired me to come back. A lot has happened.
I tried online dating again as a desperately depressed individual. 0 matches in 2 months across 3 platforms. I tried non- swipe dating apps and got brutal rejection due to my baldness twice. This only made depression worse. I mostly aimed for women over 27 and trust me, women at 27 to 40 still hate baldness.
So I said f*** it and finally decided to look into hair systems.
I did my research and went to a highly rated one. I also grew out hair on the horse shoe pattern which I hated looking at and people at work thought I was crazy but I just told them I was going to get a hair system because I'm tired of being bald. One bald guy at work thought it was a stupid idea but idgaf.
When I finished growing it I showed up and these people match your hair and glue on the hairpiece on and then give you a haircut basically. It was a little weird because I can't really feel the hair being cut and it's not my hair but it does help make the piece look more natural. They also are very careful and hide your hairline. I cried when I saw the outcome because I looked so much younger and i thought why the f*** did balding have to rob me from looking like this? I looked like my appropriate age. But after using it I experienced more depression. I decided to try going to a bar and see how people would react. Holy sh*t women started treating me differently. The contrast is so upsetting. The bar tender smiles at you, you catch women glancing at you which I have not felt in maybe a decade? It's just sad that I am living a lie but it was refreshing that all I need in life is a cure for baldness then maybe there is hope for me in the dating world. One night I had a conversation with a woman who was probably around my age and we hit it off. She gave me her number but I didn't bother calling her because all of that was under the pretense that I had my hair. When I got home I just felt sad because I know I'm a fraud and I now can see how much of a difference my life would have been with hair. That is the true impact of hair loss. The loss of fulfillment and happiness. My coworkers said it looked good on me but their attitudes toward me were still the same because they knew the truth. The female coworkers still didn't respect me and were even more condescending and that could be because I basically admitted to everyone at work that I'm very insecure. The male coworkers kinda thought I made a mistake and wasted my money but I disagree. Having a conversation in a bar with a woman who showed interest in me, despite me knowing I'm a fraud, was an experience I'll never forget. But I know I can't show the truth otherwise I wouldn't ever had the conversation in the first place.
As I said before. You can't win in life as a bald man. You trying hair loss meds, you get side effects and it still may not help you. You look at surgery, sorry you are too forgone. You try shaving it, you are judged poorly for being bald. You try a wig or system, you are now viewed as insecure. When people say you should "own it" and shave it it's almost as if they are saying to own up to the fact you have bad genes and display your inferiority to everyone so everyone knows.
I decided to just wear the system at home because at least at home I can look in the mirror and see who I want to be without being judged. It's so f*****g cruel that baldness isn't viewed as a crippling condition that needs a cure. When I look in the mirror I see what I want to be. Decent looking, confident, young, happy. But ill never be that.
Two different youtube videos of bald men giving bluepilled responses to my post months ago. I am now spreading the truth across YouTube somehow.
And these 2 guys are tall, decent head shape, and good face. They could survive the stigma of baldness because they have good qualities everywhere else. But let me break down these two characters
The first guy is barely avoiding being a baldcel. I think his height bailed him out but the dude admitted he was insecure about it. Overall boring.
The second guy is far worse. He is some sick con artist who has some disgusting bdsm fetish and he is selling bs to incels. He is literally a bald pua. He doesn't understand that he won the genetic lottery in everything but hair. He has height, face, race, head shape, jawline. Basically everything. I guarantee you if he had his hair though, he wouldn't be dating bdsm w****s. He'd be dating better women. These two fail to see how f*****g brutal balding can be so they spread nonsense like their content and someone like me won't fall for it.
But I'm back on the forums guys and I have a lot to share. I felt bad for awhile due to depression caused by my baldness but those 2 youtube videos basically inspired me to come back. A lot has happened.
I tried online dating again as a desperately depressed individual. 0 matches in 2 months across 3 platforms. I tried non- swipe dating apps and got brutal rejection due to my baldness twice. This only made depression worse. I mostly aimed for women over 27 and trust me, women at 27 to 40 still hate baldness.
So I said f*** it and finally decided to look into hair systems.
I did my research and went to a highly rated one. I also grew out hair on the horse shoe pattern which I hated looking at and people at work thought I was crazy but I just told them I was going to get a hair system because I'm tired of being bald. One bald guy at work thought it was a stupid idea but idgaf.
When I finished growing it I showed up and these people match your hair and glue on the hairpiece on and then give you a haircut basically. It was a little weird because I can't really feel the hair being cut and it's not my hair but it does help make the piece look more natural. They also are very careful and hide your hairline. I cried when I saw the outcome because I looked so much younger and i thought why the f*** did balding have to rob me from looking like this? I looked like my appropriate age. But after using it I experienced more depression. I decided to try going to a bar and see how people would react. Holy sh*t women started treating me differently. The contrast is so upsetting. The bar tender smiles at you, you catch women glancing at you which I have not felt in maybe a decade? It's just sad that I am living a lie but it was refreshing that all I need in life is a cure for baldness then maybe there is hope for me in the dating world. One night I had a conversation with a woman who was probably around my age and we hit it off. She gave me her number but I didn't bother calling her because all of that was under the pretense that I had my hair. When I got home I just felt sad because I know I'm a fraud and I now can see how much of a difference my life would have been with hair. That is the true impact of hair loss. The loss of fulfillment and happiness. My coworkers said it looked good on me but their attitudes toward me were still the same because they knew the truth. The female coworkers still didn't respect me and were even more condescending and that could be because I basically admitted to everyone at work that I'm very insecure. The male coworkers kinda thought I made a mistake and wasted my money but I disagree. Having a conversation in a bar with a woman who showed interest in me, despite me knowing I'm a fraud, was an experience I'll never forget. But I know I can't show the truth otherwise I wouldn't ever had the conversation in the first place.
As I said before. You can't win in life as a bald man. You trying hair loss meds, you get side effects and it still may not help you. You look at surgery, sorry you are too forgone. You try shaving it, you are judged poorly for being bald. You try a wig or system, you are now viewed as insecure. When people say you should "own it" and shave it it's almost as if they are saying to own up to the fact you have bad genes and display your inferiority to everyone so everyone knows.
I decided to just wear the system at home because at least at home I can look in the mirror and see who I want to be without being judged. It's so f*****g cruel that baldness isn't viewed as a crippling condition that needs a cure. When I look in the mirror I see what I want to be. Decent looking, confident, young, happy. But ill never be that.