How Can I Get Over This. I’m Just Fed Up.

mo2019

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I know balding affects everyone differently and everyone has their own ways of dealing with it. But honestly it’s taken a toll on my confidence. To the fact that I’m obsessing over this sh*t 24/7 non stop. I can’t stop thinking about it. I’m completely bald with a little smp to my head. But girls like hair.

It’s affected my dating life so badly I automatically assume every guy with a full head of hair is more attractive to the girl than me. I can’t even tell girls the fact that I’m bald and I’ll never be able to grow hair. Recently I’ve started talking to this new girl and she hasn’t seen my hair yet. I don’t know how to break it to her. My confidence is at an all time low. I don’t feel good enough anymore. What can I do brothers.
 

spring15

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Hair system & try be thankful for the good aspects of your life. That's all I got lol
 

Ikarus

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I know balding affects everyone differently and everyone has their own ways of dealing with it. But honestly it’s taken a toll on my confidence. To the fact that I’m obsessing over this sh*t 24/7 non stop. I can’t stop thinking about it. I’m completely bald with a little smp to my head. But girls like hair.

It’s affected my dating life so badly I automatically assume every guy with a full head of hair is more attractive to the girl than me. I can’t even tell girls the fact that I’m bald and I’ll never be able to grow hair. Recently I’ve started talking to this new girl and she hasn’t seen my hair yet. I don’t know how to break it to her. My confidence is at an all time low. I don’t feel good enough anymore. What can I do brothers.

You have to be willing to go on medications, and that means having the potential to have side effects. If you were truly affected by your hair loss, you would be doing whatever you can without care of side effects. Personally, I'm doing the 'MtF regimen' which transgender women use however it's shown to be greatly effective for reversing baldness... I am risking a lot, including breast growth and infertility, because I have weighed out the pros & cons and came to a conclusion that my appearance is more important to me than anything.

In your case, you could use dutasteride and have great results. It's basically a stronger version of finasteride... I'm not sure if it will help since. you said you are completely bald, though...
 

mo2019

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You have to be willing to go on medications, and that means having the potential to have side effects. If you were truly affected by your hair loss, you would be doing whatever you can without care of side effects. Personally, I'm doing the 'MtF regimen' which transgender women use however it's shown to be greatly effective for reversing baldness... I am risking a lot, including breast growth and infertility, because I have weighed out the pros & cons and came to a conclusion that my appearance is more important to me than anything.

In your case, you could use dutasteride and have great results. It's basically a stronger version of finasteride... I'm not sure if it will help since. you said you are completely bald, though...

This is bs
 

Ikarus

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This is bs

How is it BS? You're bald, you don't have many options. What do you think is going to help you? Natural remedies?

Actually, I won't bother. You're a sh*t poster, looking at your previous threads.
 

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How is it BS? You're bald, you don't have many options. What do you think is going to help you? Natural remedies?

Actually, I won't bother. You're a sh*t poster, looking at your previous threads.
MtF regime sounds a bit too extreme. I hope you know what you’re doing. What side effects are you having now?
 

Ikarus

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MtF regime sounds a bit too extreme. I hope you know what you’re doing. What side effects are you having now?

It is definitely extreme, but it's shown to be effective. I have thought about going on the regimen for several months, and came to a conclusion. I have been on the regimen for almost two weeks so far, and I haven't experienced any side effects besides slower beard growth and softer skin so far. I am expecting gynecomastia, it's just a waiting game at this point...
 

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If you're really completely bald then no treatment will give you back a good head of hair. That said only hair system will work for you (I'm not a fan of that though).

Work on your psyche and try to get over it. That's the only chance you have. I know it's difficult but that's the only way how to overcome this situatuon. Don't let this sh*t own you.

Best of luck buddy
 

Vinc2097

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I know balding affects everyone differently and everyone has their own ways of dealing with it. But honestly it’s taken a toll on my confidence. To the fact that I’m obsessing over this sh*t 24/7 non stop. I can’t stop thinking about it. I’m completely bald with a little smp to my head. But girls like hair.

It’s affected my dating life so badly I automatically assume every guy with a full head of hair is more attractive to the girl than me. I can’t even tell girls the fact that I’m bald and I’ll never be able to grow hair. Recently I’ve started talking to this new girl and she hasn’t seen my hair yet. I don’t know how to break it to her. My confidence is at an all time low. I don’t feel good enough anymore. What can I do brothers.

How old are you ? And first can you share differents pcs of your smp ! because what do you mean by ''little'' smp. If smp frame your face in normal light condition its a positive step.
 

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You have to be willing to go on medications, and that means having the potential to have side effects. If you were truly affected by your hair loss, you would be doing whatever you can without care of side effects. Personally, I'm doing the 'MtF regimen' which transgender women use however it's shown to be greatly effective for reversing baldness... I am risking a lot, including breast growth and infertility, because I have weighed out the pros & cons and came to a conclusion that my appearance is more important to me than anything.

In your case, you could use dutasteride and have great results. It's basically a stronger version of finasteride... I'm not sure if it will help since. you said you are completely bald, though...

What is your regime and current hair status ?
 

Ikarus

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What is your regime and current hair status ?

I am currently on:
- 100MG spironolactone
- 2MG estradiol

I will be going on dutasteride soon, and switching the spironolactone for cypro.
 

ChrisPratty

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I know balding affects everyone differently and everyone has their own ways of dealing with it. But honestly it’s taken a toll on my confidence. To the fact that I’m obsessing over this sh*t 24/7 non stop. I can’t stop thinking about it. I’m completely bald with a little smp to my head. But girls like hair.

It’s affected my dating life so badly I automatically assume every guy with a full head of hair is more attractive to the girl than me. I can’t even tell girls the fact that I’m bald and I’ll never be able to grow hair. Recently I’ve started talking to this new girl and she hasn’t seen my hair yet. I don’t know how to break it to her. My confidence is at an all time low. I don’t feel good enough anymore. What can I do brothers.

Hi!
Hair loss is bad and no one can understand the situation better than the individual undergoing the stress it causes.
Scalp Micropigmentation can fade away over time but it is not sure how much time it will take to completely fade away. You can opt for mediations but they have their own side effects. I will not recommend you to go for medicines. Standard SMP treatment can range between 1500-5000 US$ and that's hefty money to pay for.

I would personally recommend you to choose human hair system if you want to avoid being embarrassed all the time. it will come at 1/4 the cost of SMP treatment. Finely built modern hair systems are fully undetectable and realistic.

My elder brother wears one and I swear, no one can tell that it's a wig. We ordered his wig from Lordhair. If you want, you can also visit their website and check out all sorts of wigs, hair toupees, medical wigs and hair systems for men. I am sharing their product catalog below. You can find a suitable wig here for sure.
https://www.lordhair.com/mens-hair-systems.html

I hope you find something useful.
 
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