Has hairloss affected the way you view women?

[beast]

What I mean is have women that seemed to pass you by because of hairloss left a bad taste in your mouth for all women. I know overweight guys who get pasted over by girls and now they veiw all women in a negative light. So anyone view women negativly becuse of hairloss and the women that are all about a guys looks?

 

[beast]

ok i'll be the first to answer... Yes, hairloss has affected the way I veiw women...... My view of them is lower. It has to do with american girls putting all value in a guys looks, and little in anything else.

 

[marsbtchsx]

def didnt need hairloss or even bad looks to see that some girls can be a**holes ... figured that out pretty quickly in life

 

[Doppleganger]

It's most definately altered the way I see women, but at the same time I understand it. Basically they are just animals responding to instincts and us baldies are like Peacocks missing their vibrant tail feathers. In other words, females view us baldies as less attractive because having a full head of hair makes us look more healthy and therefore be a better bet for fertilizing their eggs and so on. On a basic level that's basically what women are looking for. A good bet to pass on their genetic code.

The world we live in has made it worse. Everything is so centred on appearance and looks and going bald kinda handicaps us right from the kick-off.

 

[arya]

Well, don’t just blame girls. We all (men & women) put too much emphasis on how other looks. No body care about heart.

 

[beast]

yeah , i agree guys do it to.

 

[Johnny24601]

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IF a man has confidence in who they are and at peace with himself then he is able to deal with anything (hairloss, rejection etc.). Therefore, our focus must not be on our view of others but our view of ourselves as individuals. If one can be at peace with himself then the rest will fall in place.
I agree with much of what you all have said, I am just trying to seek solutions to these problems. There are women who are vain, money grubbers, obsessed with tall guys, short guys, artistic dudes and even bald guys. Someday we may have a world of total tolerance but that is so far off and may end up being boring as all hell.
We are all dealing with some degree of insecurity over our hair. male pattern baldness is just part of our genes and there is nothing wrong with it per say, it is just our own personal insecurities that make us think we are ugly. All we can do is try proven and safe treatments to slow or stop the balding process and also deal with our insecurities as to why we feel ugly being bald.
How can the loss of a few thousand strands of hair cause us to question how valuable we are to the opposite sex? One would think there are many more important things to consider when one evaluates their value as a partner?