How much do you think that hairloss really affects sexual attraction in terms of women being attracted to us? When I first started losing my hair I didn't think that it would really matter but over the past 2 years my sex life has diminished greatly to where I find myself being put into the friend zone more despite acting the same as I always have. Unfortunately it seems like the hair is one of the first things that women notice even when they are in their 30's. I am 29 by the way. Has anyone else had a great decrease in their sex life since they started losing their hair?
Hairloss and sexual attraction
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omgstfuty
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I'll be completly honest, the last time I got laid was 1 and a half years ago.(pretty sad I know) , but the thing is, I get told I get checked out quite a lot, even though I shave my head and my temples can be seen from Mars, and the same can be said for my crown.But the problem is for me, that I always think that girls are staring at my balding head, and just taking the piss,I dont no, hair-loss has definitely made me lose all my confidence in mysefl, I think im quite a good looking guy, but the confidence i represent to the world: I may aswell look like an ogre.
Its fucked up how hairloss can affect you mentally.
I think as soon as I get laid again, it will have a domino affect, and then I can just possibly score a bit.f*** knows, my confidence is far to drained to even see that far ahead.
I would love to hear what other people think about this aswell.
Its fucked up how hairloss can affect you mentally.
I think as soon as I get laid again, it will have a domino affect, and then I can just possibly score a bit.f*** knows, my confidence is far to drained to even see that far ahead.
I would love to hear what other people think about this aswell.
Axon
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mmm....I'm sure it plays a role, but women are fairly accepting of certain things on men, just as we're accepting of certain things on them. Cellulite, for example - probably 90% of the women I've been with had cottage cheese asses, and weren't exactly fat. Nonetheless, it was there.
Can't say I gave a sh*t, though.
Can't say I gave a sh*t, though.
DonaldAnderson
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I agree and I have experienced this. It does factor in a little but it all comes down to your personality....and bankroll.
northeastguy
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The right ones don't care. I'm with one who I thought was soo superficial, as from the guys she's dated before and things she has said about other guys. We've been friends for forever so I know. But when it comes down to it she likes me for me, not my hair...and she's told me so. I usually wear a hat and she knows I'm self-conscious in front of people, but when its just me and her she makes sure the hat comes off! And my hair looks shitty. She could care less though. So to some it may matter, but the right ones really are more accepting than we think.
chewbaca
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in my country i had seen couples where the gal is drop dead gorgeous and the guy farking ugly or bald.
Personally it happened to me, during my high school days, i had a crush on this girl and chased after her madly. she knows it. and yet she rejected me and went with for a guy who is not even half as good looking as me.
And she is the most fro dead gorgeous in the whole school
Now how will u explain that? Just picture yourself (yeah u balding guys out there) what if u are that guy who is not as half good looking as me.
think. Life's is box of chocolates, u may never know what u get. or what u may not get
Of course the first half of the line da original line was made famous by Forrest Gump
The fact that you never know what you are going to get passed me by, always i thought i was a control freak. Da cool and sexy till this episode of rejection hit me . I'm struggling to find anyone who says they have the menu to life.
It is just like the hard and soft centres in the box of chocolates. Everyone has a preference be it hard or soft, but part of eating the box of chocolates is eating both the hard and the soft centres. This seems to fall in line with life. Some things in life bring us pleasure and make us happy, like the soft centred chocolates in my case. Some things in life aren't so great like the anchovy flavoured hard centres. Yet there is nothing we can do about it because buying a box of chocolates means you are always going to have hard and soft centres so you have to take the good with the bad. My armchair philosophy for the day.
Personally it happened to me, during my high school days, i had a crush on this girl and chased after her madly. she knows it. and yet she rejected me and went with for a guy who is not even half as good looking as me.
And she is the most fro dead gorgeous in the whole school
Now how will u explain that? Just picture yourself (yeah u balding guys out there) what if u are that guy who is not as half good looking as me.
think. Life's is box of chocolates, u may never know what u get. or what u may not get
Of course the first half of the line da original line was made famous by Forrest Gump
The fact that you never know what you are going to get passed me by, always i thought i was a control freak. Da cool and sexy till this episode of rejection hit me . I'm struggling to find anyone who says they have the menu to life.
It is just like the hard and soft centres in the box of chocolates. Everyone has a preference be it hard or soft, but part of eating the box of chocolates is eating both the hard and the soft centres. This seems to fall in line with life. Some things in life bring us pleasure and make us happy, like the soft centred chocolates in my case. Some things in life aren't so great like the anchovy flavoured hard centres. Yet there is nothing we can do about it because buying a box of chocolates means you are always going to have hard and soft centres so you have to take the good with the bad. My armchair philosophy for the day.
alfonso2501
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I think it’s a self-confidence thing. If you got a good hairline you got more self-confidence then someone who’s receding, & women are naturally attracted to self-confidence. Of course every woman’s different so there is more too it then that, but that’s my thoughts as far as male pattern baldness & women are concerned.
I agree! :nod:northeastguy said:
Jeff71913
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Well, let me totally resolve this issue. I am a specialist concerning women. And the results are in: THEY DON'T GIVE A CRAP!
You guys make way too much of this. Women want a confident caring man and they don't care if he is bald or thinning. Case in point; my Dad whom married my Mother. My Mom was and is a very beautiful woman, but she saw more in him than just a bald head. If a woman is concerned with your bald head then get out fast! She will only do you harm in the long run. By the way, there are a lot of guys out there that are balding and are still much better looking that guys with a full head of hair. Just something to think about. JUST BECAUSE A MAN HAS GOOD HAIR DOES NOT NECESSARILY MAKE HIM GOOD LOOKING! PERIOD!!!!!!
You guys make way too much of this. Women want a confident caring man and they don't care if he is bald or thinning. Case in point; my Dad whom married my Mother. My Mom was and is a very beautiful woman, but she saw more in him than just a bald head. If a woman is concerned with your bald head then get out fast! She will only do you harm in the long run. By the way, there are a lot of guys out there that are balding and are still much better looking that guys with a full head of hair. Just something to think about. JUST BECAUSE A MAN HAS GOOD HAIR DOES NOT NECESSARILY MAKE HIM GOOD LOOKING! PERIOD!!!!!!
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honestly i've probably been getting more women and hotter women in the last 2 years than before, and i have less hair. there may be and probably are other factors involved but at least the hairloss thing hasn't shut me out of the market completely as some of you seem to think it has or will
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SteelersinMia
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"This link might give you a clue.
http://www.spcnet.tv/forums/showthread.php?t=12966"
"Hmm...no bald guys for me. But then, if he went bald after we went out together for some time, i'll accept him. But... not for 1st impression"
ouch lol .. that's one of the responses to the poll in that link ..
edit: she goes on to talk about how she was dumped by her bf because of her looks(some bs about not keeping herself looking pretty, not using makeup as frequently yada yada) and how she didn't care because she wouldn't want to be with a shallow guy to begin with ..
aside from the fact that this sounds like a young chick(they have their different, immature views obviously) .. she's completely contradicting herself .. I wonder if she's aware of this ?
seeing chicks say this type of crap only reinforces my belief that you can't listen to what women say because ultimately .. 'they don't know what the hell they're saying or what the hell they truly want' .. guys have to take charge
http://www.spcnet.tv/forums/showthread.php?t=12966"
"Hmm...no bald guys for me. But then, if he went bald after we went out together for some time, i'll accept him. But... not for 1st impression"
ouch lol .. that's one of the responses to the poll in that link ..
edit: she goes on to talk about how she was dumped by her bf because of her looks(some bs about not keeping herself looking pretty, not using makeup as frequently yada yada) and how she didn't care because she wouldn't want to be with a shallow guy to begin with ..
aside from the fact that this sounds like a young chick(they have their different, immature views obviously) .. she's completely contradicting herself .. I wonder if she's aware of this ?
seeing chicks say this type of crap only reinforces my belief that you can't listen to what women say because ultimately .. 'they don't know what the hell they're saying or what the hell they truly want' .. guys have to take charge
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Some girls in that forum replied by saying they don't care about if the guy is bald or going bald. It all comes down to his personality. The best response i have to say is this..
"No, it doesn't worry me at all. If he is bald, I think how the guy handles his baldness is whta matters mreo to me. If he goes all soppy and moans about himself losing his hair, I'll probably not go out with him, but he is accepting and doesn't mind (like make jokes about his own head), then it shows that this man who is patient and tolerant, which makes a good friend, if not a boyfriend."
"No, it doesn't worry me at all. If he is bald, I think how the guy handles his baldness is whta matters mreo to me. If he goes all soppy and moans about himself losing his hair, I'll probably not go out with him, but he is accepting and doesn't mind (like make jokes about his own head), then it shows that this man who is patient and tolerant, which makes a good friend, if not a boyfriend."
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"No, it doesn't worry me at all. If he is bald, I think how the guy handles his baldness is whta matters mreo to me. If he goes all soppy and moans about himself losing his hair, I'll probably not go out with him, but he is accepting and doesn't mind (like make jokes about his own head), then it shows that this man who is patient and tolerant, which makes a good friend, if not a boyfriend."[/quote]
"Which makes a good friend, if not a boyfriend."
That last line bothers me, but I think she´s right.
As long as the guy has a good attitude about his hairloss,
a lot of women might still consider dating him.
"Which makes a good friend, if not a boyfriend."
That last line bothers me, but I think she´s right.
As long as the guy has a good attitude about his hairloss,
a lot of women might still consider dating him.
I'm 21 and have lost quite a bit on the top and temples. Reckon It'll all be gone within 2-3 years. I didn't have much confidence before i started losing my hair anyway, but ever since I've started getting a #1 my confidence has sky rocketed and that's the most important thing. I think its all an age thing aswell. I have more success with girls who are 2+ years older than me and rarely get anyone younger or around the same age. But I'm not complaining. find the girls in the mid 20's are a lot less hard work and more mature than the ones that are younger.
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Hey PeakHair,
Is that Jennifer Lopez's *** in your avatar?
Is that Jennifer Lopez's *** in your avatar?
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SteelersinMia said:
You're right, they never know what they want.
BTW that chick you quoted had a myspace link in her sig and she was pretty damn ugly. Beggars can't be choosers!
omgstfuty
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Lol the girl who quoted her myspace link, is completly disgusting, I would never let her touch my c***, youd think someone with a face like that wouldnt say sh*t about things like hairloss, I wouldnt f*** her even if i was completly ratarsed.
And thats one thing Ive noticed, ugly girls seem to hate hairloss more then pretty girls, I wonder why that is? I was thinking surely cos ther ugly and fattish like the girl in the link, they should go for any body ie a geek or a fat c*unt.. Do you no what I mean?
And thats one thing Ive noticed, ugly girls seem to hate hairloss more then pretty girls, I wonder why that is? I was thinking surely cos ther ugly and fattish like the girl in the link, they should go for any body ie a geek or a fat c*unt.. Do you no what I mean?