hair which make you beautiful!

[elliotramsey]

Stop fueling the mlio's (my life is over) of this forum. You obviously are not worth it to anyone, so you feel as if you must demoralize those with an already emotionally devastating condition. One, I might add, that can't really be controlled.
Your downplaying personality, on the other hand, can be controlled, so I suggest you get on finasteride right away.. :woot:

 

[keepinthehair]

You need to look up the soccer player that turned into a Calvin Klein model AFTER he became bald. Name is something like Frederick Ljundberg or something. Plenty of guys, hey just check out the other forum, Sly Guys, they are sexy damn it!

 

[Luther007]

I used to think this too. I realize it's because men aren't good evaluators of male attractiveness. We see bald=ugly. That's because hair is essential to feminine beauty, and that's what we are attracted to. Many women don't mind bald men at all, in fact some find it sexy.

It really has to do with your self-image though; if you're not comfortable bald, then you won't be attractive because you won't exude the confidence necessary to attract women.

 

[slipy]

Plenty of guys, hey just check out the other forum, Sly Guys, they are sexy damn it!

seriously or you're being sarcastic? :shock:

 

[GeminiX]

Plenty of guys, hey just check out the other forum, Sly Guys, they are sexy damn it!

seriously or you're being sarcastic? :shock:

A lot of people think they are, attraction is not just about vanity and looks.

Most people who actually consider it would prefer a partner with modest looks but a fantastic personality over a handsome a**h**.

 

[keepinthehair]

Plenty of guys, hey just check out the other forum, Sly Guys, they are sexy damn it!

seriously or you're being sarcastic? :shock:

A lot of people think they are, attraction is not just about vanity and looks.

Most people who actually consider it would prefer a partner with modest looks but a fantastic personality over a handsome a**hole.

Yes it was sarcasm, as so many people on here poked fun in the Sly Guy tread about confident bald men. They are correct, personality lasts all day every day, hair is just a small physical attribute.

I work with 90% female. Physical appearance is most important to a young female who is generally speaking, "never had a broken heart" and waiting for her "Night in Shining armour." I see it all the time. She then turns 30 and begins to freak out because she is not married because of her shallow expectations. In the meantime her intelligent friends, some who married balding men, or as Geminix stated "modest men" are very happy and have moved on with life.

A mature (intelligent) woman wants a man that makes her feel beautiful and special. Dont need hair for that. Point is my balding friends, forget the women who think hair is a requirement for a relationship, they will never be happy. Has nothing to do with you/lack of hair. Do the best for your hair, but have a smart women on your side, not one that makes you feel insecure about hair loss. You will be happier in the end.