I use Fructis gel: https://www.amazon.com/Garnier-Fruc...sr=8-9&keywords=garnier+fructis+sculpting+gel
It doesn't contain alcohol and leaves less residue than other similar gels. Ideal if you have to go a day or two without washing your hair. Also works well in conjunction with leave-in conditioner. You can choose a softer or harder hold if needed.