I heard advice that when you see a pretty woman and plan to say hi, instead of hoping she will like you, you should try and find out if she even has a good personality, and is more than a pretty face. People like to reject before getting rejected so they can save face. The fact is, if she does not like your appearance, she will not try to lead you on, and will not help the conversation as much as you want. Then you get to say that she is boring.
Women do this to guys all the time. If you hear women put down guys with six pack abs, it is because they know they can't get him, so they say they don't want him.
Anyway, most people have decent personalities. Some people are more shy than they should be, but most can sense what their chances are. They are shy if they are trying to get women out of their league. If they are happy with women in their league, then they are not shy. That is where the transition happens.
Ok, here is what I was building up to. I heard someone say that once you go bald, you have to develop a good personality since your hair is no longer there to make up for that. What this translates into is that once your hair is gone, you have to start flirting with the women whom you used to think were below your league. You can't be "shallow and stuck up" any more, qualities that are "a bad personality." Or you can just make more money or do other stuff.
And worse case cinario, just be funny. It seems possible to do that since it does not take muscles or money, which is why everyone says that. The fact is you still have to do it constantly, and the pretty woman does not have to since her looks do the work for her. Also, if a woman does not like your looks, it does not matter how funny you are. She might not laugh so she does not lead you on. Often if a pretty woman laughs at an ugly man's jokes, it is because she thinks he knows she is out of her league and is not trying to hit on her, and is just a funny guy. I heard of some bouncers who think that just because a woman flirts back that he can date all these women, when the fact is she thinks he is "safe", and won't actually try to date her.
I'm not saying this out of bitterness. I think I will get some hot women. I think I will beat this hair loss, will build muscle, will fix my wardrobe, and will get a good paying job, and will get the woman I want. I'm just passing this info on for anyone who wants to learn more.
