gh05 said:
Not sure about the original question but just to say that it would make me feel REALLY uncomfortable if my girlfriend flat out said she didn't like guys with shaved heads or bald heads. Honestly it would make me not want to be with her.
Although you're treating your hair loss there's no guarantee that it will work long term (finasteride only slows it down) and I'd want a girl who would find me hot no matter if i went bald or not. Is that unrealistic? I don't know, but that's the way i feel. I'd run from a girl in panic that one day i could wake up losing hair again knowing she hated it.
She's never flat out been like "Bald guys are ugly" shes just made comments about how she doesn't like the shaved look on a guy and how she loves my hair and its one of my best features. Most girls, given the choice between a guy with hair and a guy with no hair are going to choose the guy with hair... hairloss guys need to come to terms with this fact..i see denial of it all over the place on forums like this...and its like..just accept it... Of course you can get in great shape and develop your game with women and of course that may make it a non issue for you....but its a whole lot easier with hair. Guys in the hairloss community often scream "WELL THATS SHALLOW AND ANY GIRL THAT FEELS LIKE THAT IS A c**t AND IT SHOULDNT MATTER BLAH BLAH BLAH"...but they need to realize that its a preference..and thats ok..it doesn't make a girl a shallow c**t to want a guy with hair. Those same guys probably have preferences of their own. Would they date a really fat girl? Would they date a girl who was bald? Probably not..but they don't consider themselves shallow.