Okay, I'll try to be more specific.
What makes you all think that if you are an "incel" you can't please a woman on the outside? Appearance means behavior for a woman, if you look “cool”, she will pay attention to it, just like if you are rich or status, only after you meet, your appearance will no longer matter, all her attention will be riveted to your behavior. Appearance has both pluses and minuses, the minus is that the more "cooler" you look, the more they expect from you in behavior and will be more disappointed if you do not live up to these expectations.
In my country (perhaps in others too), men who are in prison often use women. They get acquainted with them by phone and women fall head over heels in love with them, come to them for 400 km, bring food, cigarettes and even drugs manage to smuggle in a*** or vagina (they are searched before a date). Now think about it, these women have never seen them, only when they come to visit them and they don’t run away from them after they see them, but marry them, and even the fact that they are in prison and communication takes place at a distance, their does not stop, they are waiting for them, like a husband from the war.
Incels think that a woman is the same man, only without eggs. As if she also thinks, argues, analyzes, draws conclusions. No. There is even such an expression "female logic", there is no logic there, it is based on intuition, a woman is primarily emotions, she is closer to an animal than a man, she evaluates you instinctively. A woman is just as manipulative, even after 10 years of marriage, she will check you “strong” or “weak”, “whether she married for that or was mistaken.” As an example, "dear hold my bag, I'll change my shoes", the strong one will say "put it on the ground", the weak one will take it and hold it like an idiot (this indicates that the man has low self-esteem). There are a million such manipulations in women, the incel does not have a subconscious defense against this, he simply does what his "beloved" says, because this is the meaning of his life, whereas not incel, let's call it "alpha" is the meaning of life in oneself, in one's own interests, hobbies, desires. A woman follows a man, not a man follows her, and there is no "equality", do not confuse social instinct with an animal.
P.s. Here even the guys want to end their lives, because they are bald and they think that women will never give them. This is fucked up guys.
