fred
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Just wanted to share. I just got dumped 3 days ago for no apparent reason after a year and half relationship.
Recently, I would say middle August my thinning (I turn 24 next week) became "noticeable", albeit very slightly (fuzzy temples and messy top). My girlfriend, i mean my ex, was unaware of my thinning the entire relationship, since it was unnoticeable until 3 weeks ago, but last week as we were back from cinema, she stared at my hair and said "hey you cut your hair or what?". I didn't really paid attention but I always thought she would accept me as I am the day she'll know as she seemed very in love and the relationship was very serious (1 year and 1/2).
Few days later, she send me a sms drily saying that she just doesn't feel anything for me anymore (nothing, I mean nothing prepared me for that as the last day we spend was a pretty ordinary one, hugging, "I love you" and "I'll miss you" etc...). I am pretty sure my hairloss has something to do with it as it somehow began to affect my apparence. The scary part is that she was the opposite of your average superficial b**ch and was very in love with me (she kept on telling me it would be for life), second that my self-esteem, and my esteem in women in general have been deeply damaged since she is the last girl I thought to be capable of that. Sorry to tell you that, from my experience, hairloss can kill "true" love.
Recently, I would say middle August my thinning (I turn 24 next week) became "noticeable", albeit very slightly (fuzzy temples and messy top). My girlfriend, i mean my ex, was unaware of my thinning the entire relationship, since it was unnoticeable until 3 weeks ago, but last week as we were back from cinema, she stared at my hair and said "hey you cut your hair or what?". I didn't really paid attention but I always thought she would accept me as I am the day she'll know as she seemed very in love and the relationship was very serious (1 year and 1/2).
Few days later, she send me a sms drily saying that she just doesn't feel anything for me anymore (nothing, I mean nothing prepared me for that as the last day we spend was a pretty ordinary one, hugging, "I love you" and "I'll miss you" etc...). I am pretty sure my hairloss has something to do with it as it somehow began to affect my apparence. The scary part is that she was the opposite of your average superficial b**ch and was very in love with me (she kept on telling me it would be for life), second that my self-esteem, and my esteem in women in general have been deeply damaged since she is the last girl I thought to be capable of that. Sorry to tell you that, from my experience, hairloss can kill "true" love.