Does your HEART DROP and you become DEPRESSED when you see a Woman that you LIKE?

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Does your HEART DROP and you become DEPRESSED when you see a Woman that you are interested in getting with? I feel this way ALL OF THE TIME! The moment I see a girl that I would like to date/relationship the thought about my hair and how it used to look when I was younger takes my confidence down to ZERO! And im just like **** if my hair was like it was when I was 22 THINGS WOULD BE SO DIFFERENT! Also, withthin a time frame of 1 second I get these fantasies about how I could have approached her and we would start dating and ending up in a long term relationship and how I would be in LOVE but then reality sets in and my hairline is ****ed and Im back to depression. =( :( Have these thoughts ever occurred to you?
 

wrwr

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Yeah.. i had this problem for one year only, but i'm really fed up with this.
Currently i use few very simple work-arounds.

1). Internet.
Find out girl's name. Find her in social networks. Chat online for a while. Be honest.
After a few days, i usually have two possible outcomes:
a). She is not really that interesting.
b). She is good and she does not care much about my hair. And now it is not so scary to meet her in person.

2). If immediate talk is unavoidable - wear a hat. If she asks - say you have a temporary problem up there, but it will be resolved soon. And you don't want it to prevent you from meeting such a cute girl. When you wear a hat, think of it as super invincible armour. Hairloss does not exist anymore, and you may do your best without any restrictions.

The main idea for male pattern baldness sufferers is to avoid screwing up the first impression. Most people make decisions in a first few seconds or minutes. Survive it, and you will be good.
 

zzzzz

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No because I still attract girls the same as I did before hair loss and able to get attractive girls
 
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No because I still attract girls the same as I did before hair loss and able to get attractive girls

well happy for you , I hope others would have the same luck as you.

by the way zzzzz this is your first post where you actually don't rush people into taking finasteride
 

Scalpology

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No, it does not, because I go outside with a bandana/band hiding my recession or a hat.
 

Bronn

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No. I didn't start hooking up with girls until I started going bald. It doesn't bother me near as much as other people. Tbh I don't even think about my thinning air hardly and I don't let affect me.
 
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