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I'm not ugly. It's actually rare to see aguy who is really ugly.
But in saying that. I think you either "have it" or you "don't"
In my experience and what i noticed is that every guy i know and see irl most guys who 'have it' have always seemed to have girlfriends .
I also noticed most dateable girls looks wise (5/10+ ) always seen to have boyfriends or guys who jjust 'have it'
so what do I mean? I mean usually it's a combination of the following
- above average height
- being white/Caucasian
- being in shape or not over weight
- having an ok face (not ugly)
- hair
or if they lack certain areas some other areas seem to make up for it e.g. an above average face but short, great social skills, but below average face etc.
but it seems that you need to have these certain things, like you'll always be considered boyfriend material or never have a hard time attracting women
if you're born 6 ft 2 white with an ok fat + not fat you've already won.
whereas if ur a man whose ugly and short you're pretty much screwed, there's literally nothing you can do you're fighting an uphill battle. unless you have outstanding social skills which is something you can't really change.
this is my experience from what ive endured and witnessed
anyone else relate?
But in saying that. I think you either "have it" or you "don't"
In my experience and what i noticed is that every guy i know and see irl most guys who 'have it' have always seemed to have girlfriends .
I also noticed most dateable girls looks wise (5/10+ ) always seen to have boyfriends or guys who jjust 'have it'
so what do I mean? I mean usually it's a combination of the following
- above average height
- being white/Caucasian
- being in shape or not over weight
- having an ok face (not ugly)
- hair
or if they lack certain areas some other areas seem to make up for it e.g. an above average face but short, great social skills, but below average face etc.
but it seems that you need to have these certain things, like you'll always be considered boyfriend material or never have a hard time attracting women
if you're born 6 ft 2 white with an ok fat + not fat you've already won.
whereas if ur a man whose ugly and short you're pretty much screwed, there's literally nothing you can do you're fighting an uphill battle. unless you have outstanding social skills which is something you can't really change.
this is my experience from what ive endured and witnessed
anyone else relate?