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My biggest fear with going bald is that girls won't like me.
I can relate.Unfortunately there are some sad stories about this. Like my friend who has been in a relationship with this girl for 4 years, (they're both 28 now) but all those years he's been diffusing really bad and keep doing this nasty combover, and he's been a hat prisoner in almost all pictures. I mean literally, all their pics together is he's been wearing a hat. In the beach, mall, restaurant, even weddings. Sadly he said to me that the girl broke up with him coz he can't stand his look anymore, she wants him to just shave it off or get a neat haircut but my friend isn't brave enough to accept it and show the world his diffusing dome. He told me that it is the major reason coz she is getting pressured by people and they are getting irritated why he is always wearing a hat. And also the friends of this girl always notices and keeps asking her why he always wear a cap all the time, and even joke and said "don't tell me that in your wedding day, he'll still be wearing a cap lol". That's pretty depressing and I feel bad for my friend. Now his ex gf has a new boyfriend after just 1 month, who has a normal hair, not really thick, and can't deny she's been getting banged by him already, while my friend is somewhere alone wearing a hat.
brutal. Baldcel fate. f*****g BRUTAL.Unfortunately there are some sad stories about this. Like my friend who has been in a relationship with this girl for 4 years, (they're both 28 now) but all those years he's been diffusing really bad and keep doing this nasty combover, and he's been a hat prisoner in almost all pictures. I mean literally, all their pics together is he's been wearing a hat. In the beach, mall, restaurant, even weddings. Sadly he said to me that the girl broke up with him coz he can't stand his look anymore, she wants him to just shave it off or get a neat haircut but my friend isn't brave enough to accept it and show the world his diffusing dome. He told me that it is the major reason coz she is getting pressured by people and they are getting irritated why he is always wearing a hat. And also the friends of this girl always notices and keeps asking her why he always wear a cap all the time, and even joke and said "don't tell me that in your wedding day, he'll still be wearing a cap lol". That's pretty depressing and I feel bad for my friend. Now his ex gf has a new boyfriend after just 1 month, who has a normal hair, not really thick, and can't deny she's been getting banged by him already, while my friend is somewhere alone wearing a hat.
Unfortunately there are some sad stories about this. Like my friend who has been in a relationship with this girl for 4 years, (they're both 28 now) but all those years he's been diffusing really bad and keep doing this nasty combover, and he's been a hat prisoner in almost all pictures. I mean literally, all their pics together is he's been wearing a hat. In the beach, mall, restaurant, even weddings. Sadly he said to me that the girl broke up with him coz she can't stand his look anymore, she wants him to just shave it off or get a neat haircut but my friend isn't brave enough to accept it and show the world his diffusing dome. He told me that it is the major reason coz she is getting pressured by people and they are getting irritated why he is always wearing a hat. And also the friends of this girl always notices and keeps asking her why he always wear a cap all the time, and even joke and said "don't tell me that in your wedding day, he'll still be wearing a cap lol". That's pretty depressing and I feel bad for my friend. Now his ex gf has a new boyfriend after just 1 month, who has a normal hair, not really thick, and can't deny she's been getting banged by him already, while my friend is somewhere alone wearing a hat.
Yeah that's why I'm going off myself can't stand the idea of being baldMy biggest fear with going bald is that girls won't like me.
Unfortunately there are some sad stories about this. Like my friend who has been in a relationship with this girl for 4 years, (they're both 28 now) but all those years he's been diffusing really bad and keep doing this nasty combover, and he's been a hat prisoner in almost all pictures. I mean literally, all their pics together is he's been wearing a hat. In the beach, mall, restaurant, even weddings. Sadly he said to me that the girl broke up with him coz she can't stand his look anymore, she wants him to just shave it off or get a neat haircut but my friend isn't brave enough to accept it and show the world his diffusing dome. He told me that it is the major reason coz she is getting pressured by people and they are getting irritated why he is always wearing a hat. And also the friends of this girl always notices and keeps asking her why he always wear a cap all the time, and even joke and said "don't tell me that in your wedding day, he'll still be wearing a cap lol". That's pretty depressing and I feel bad for my friend. Now his ex gf has a new boyfriend after just 1 month, who has a normal hair, not really thick, and can't deny she's been getting banged by him already, while my friend is somewhere alone wearing a hat.
I think this thread is malconceived in the first place. Suppose you're doomed for baldness. Well, are you just gonna say f*** all to all women(or men if that's your thing) for the rest of your life? You don't get another life to have a new face and a new full set of hair. You'll probably have a harder time, but saying f***-all is pointless. We only have one life for sure. I'm not saying you should stop trying to fight hairloss; just make sure you don't let it control and wreck your life. Do you really want all of your memories to be about resentment about losing your hair?
If you all want some perspective, I'm an 18 year old male with a stable NW1.5 (so far) with no diffuse or crown or top thinning. Never dated or had sex. Still haven't. My profile picture is pretty much what I look like. My father considers me very mentally sick,and I've been questioned why the hell I'm on this forum sometimes because of my "sick obsession" with my hair. I suppose monitoring a hairline automatically makes you mentally ill. In any case, being a fullhead doesn't give you magical powers.
In any case, have any of you considered the fact that balding men on this forum may not have a wife or girlfriend less because they're balding and more because they become pathologically obsessed and crippled by their hair that they look depressed all the time and have no confidence?
Just my two cents.
Good post. Yes, we all know balding looks like sh*t but nothing is more unattractive to women that a neurotic male that spends all day obsessing about their (lack of) hair. The role of confidence and 'self love' I feel is understated.
We all know that hairloss can turn you into a hollow shell of your former self so I think it's multi faceted.
Yeah I’ve got a gf and multiple women on the side. I’m an NW0/1 though because I’m on the correct regimen.
I think this thread is malconceived in the first place. Suppose you're doomed for baldness. Well, are you just gonna say f*** all to all women(or men if that's your thing) for the rest of your life? You don't get another life to have a new face and a new full set of hair. You'll probably have a harder time, but saying f***-all is pointless. We only have one life for sure. I'm not saying you should stop trying to fight hairloss; just make sure you don't let it control and wreck your life. Do you really want all of your memories to be about resentment about losing your hair?
If you all want some perspective, I'm an 18 year old male with a stable NW1.5 (so far) with no diffuse or crown or top thinning. Never dated or had sex. Still haven't. My profile picture is pretty much what I look like. My father considers me very mentally sick,and I've been questioned why the hell I'm on this forum sometimes because of my "sick obsession" with my hair. I suppose monitoring a hairline automatically makes you mentally ill. In any case, being a fullhead doesn't give you magical powers.
In any case, have any of you considered the fact that balding men on this forum may not have a wife or girlfriend less because they're balding and more because they become pathologically obsessed and crippled by their hair that they look depressed all the time and have no confidence?
Just my two cents.
Dear lord.
Yeah I’ve got a gf and multiple women on the side. I’m an NW0/1 though because I’m on the correct regimen.
So a guy with no balding can get a girl? Thanks for letting us know...
I am balding. I show no signs because of my regimen though. I did also catch it early as well because I cut my own hair.
You have no experience with women and are too young to be giving advice. I’ve slept with over 50 women and dated them in short and longer term relationships. What do I look like listening to you? Let the grownups talk my WK friend.
So a guy with no balding can get a girl? Thanks for letting us know...