daughter with trichotillomania

mandasmom

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I am posting as a desperate mom of a daughter who has been playing and now pulling her hair out for almost a year now. She is only barely 6yrs old and has had her hair cut many times to even out the broken ends. Right now, it is as short (or possibly even a bit shorter) than her brother's and since she started pulling her hair, she has quite a few bald spots. We've tried everything we can think of to help her - even ignoring the hair pulling, but it is disappearing so quickly that we fear ignoring it too long will allow her to go completely bald before our eyes. Please, any advice or ideas would be GREATLY appreciated. We love our little girl and just want her to be happy.
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Vega

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hi along time since your letter but i only just read it. My wife had trichotillomania for a while 5 to 6 years ago and pulled out almost every hair in her head. She was bald for 3-4 years although its now growing back and we seem to have beaten the problem. Here are some ways that we did that:

1) we put fake finger nails on her - that way she couldn't pull the hairs out because her nails were to longs

2) keep entertained, from my experience most of the hair pulling was during periods of boredom/ inaction.

3) obviously shave her head, that way she cannot get at the hairs, and keep shaving it for a long period.

4) make her wear gloves during the time she is awake


hope this helps
 

SE-freak

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mandasmom,

Check this site out. It seems pretty serious. There are some categories regarding therapy too:

http://lilboh-nfl.dnsalias.com/trich/mo ... ame=Forums

Here is a very informative FAQ:
http://www.geocities.com/~modularforms/trich/ideas.html

I quote some paragraphs:
General strategies

*Improve quality of life. Though it is not guaranteed to help directly, it can't hurt, and it is indeed possible that it will help. Exercise, diet, learning how to say "no" to stressors, streamlining one's life so that it is more likely that high priority things will get done--these can't help but be good things. When stress is thus minimized, trich might be helped either by the lessening of stress-related urges or the increasing of the ability to follow through on resolutions.

*Willpower. I hate to mention this one because condemning oneself for being weak and having no willpower is one of the most painful side effects of having trich but that is how some people say they were able to go months without pulling.

*Religion. This sensitive subject comes up on the board periodically. Many people gain strength from their religious faith and some report miraculous and total relief from trich symptoms. When discussing religion on the board please be gentle in your response. If you are religious please remember that many people have had bad experiences with religion, and many simply have a different faith from your own. If you are not religious, please remember that for many people religion is a source of comfort, a way of life, and often a help in dealing with trich.

*Support groups (such as this board)

*Picking oneself up after pulling. Trying "one more time." This leads to many people not declaring themselves cured but rather declaring that they are finding it easier and easier to go long times without pulling and that they are also finding that the urges are less most of the time.
A personal favorite of mine: redefining what it means to be cured to something along the lines of "getting rid of the shame and finding significant success in decreasing the amount of pulling."

*One benefit which the slow steady recovery has over more "miraculous" ones is that when the person is actively involved in achieving remission and when that person has had setbacks and then overcome them, that person is conscious of strategies which worked for them once and which they might be able to employ again. Make a note of whatever seems to have worked for you to any degree so that you might try it again at some later point even if you have temporarily abandoned it.

I am aware that some of these things cannot be applied to your daughter's case due to age, but they could help you conceive a strategy with greater chances for success.

I hope all go well.

Make sure you give manda a kiss from us :)
 

Alicen

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Trichotillomania

There must be a physical reason. My daughter and I have benefited from this type of problem through a new alternative treatment called Holographic Health. Check out http://www.drkatekeville.com or the "Contact Us" form at http://www.holographichealth.com to find out if there is a practitioner in your area. It is totally safe for children. (We have learned that childhood immunizations and anesthesia can contribute to problems like this.)
 
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