What´s your yearly income?
heyletssolvethis
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HAHAHA Broke as f*** is my yearly income, I take her to wine weds specials, the type where they have half price wine. Although I do make decent money at work as an EMT, in Canada they actually pay us decent. But the work is few and far between with the oil crash, so broke as the flint water system would describe my current financial situation. I'm telling you its all confidence, and charisma, and humor. They don't care how much hair you have if you lack personality, and/or are a dick. I would say having humor and making them smile is the #1 way to get laid in the history of the universe, minus the other non ethical ones
humor mixed with confidence and charisma of course.
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A Bald head is better than a balding head, always. That's from the opinion of the beautiful woman, not me. This talk of wigs (OMG DONT, only woman get away with wigs), or Powders or trimming the sides (lol). Just free yourself of the stress.
Listen guys this is coming from the heart... I'm a 29 year old male and I slick shave my head due to what I would consider major thinning. And I can say with complete satisfaction that it is NOT the end of the world! Lol. Would I like to have a full head of hair, HELL YAH! Simply because Its something I cant have, that's just the way human psychology works. The fear mongering of not getting laid due to being clean shaven is intense, I sense a forum full of republicans no doubt. Haha Jk!, just a little joke to lighten the mood. I'm Canadian I don't really follow that stuff anyways
First off, if you know anything about women you know that its AT FIRST all attraction, after the first 5 min, if your a good looking dufus, then you may get some horny chick that you probably shouldn't be sticking your penis in anyways. That being said, Bald is sexy, Bald looks strong... But you need to take care of other attributes more to balance out the style of being bald. That means GYM, If your balding... and worrying about being good looking, and not working towards having a sexy, disciplined well maintained body. Then your doing it wrong. Being bald is a very clean and disciplined look, which means you need to reciprocate with a clean and disciplined looking physique. Also, if your confident you WILL get what ever girl you want, regardless of what deficits you may think are holding you back. That's just the way it works, if your in denial about that then I gotta say, you probably have no idea how to pick up a chick at all.
I go out ALL the time with friends that have full heads of hair, and the ratio is literally the same. Sometimes I strike out and they don't, Sometimes they strike out and I collect. Sometimes they pick up a dime, sometimes a dime is irresistibly and uncontrollably turned on by me and needs to have a one night stand with this confident, sexy, clean looking man. One thing I have noticed is that younger girls, lets say 18-21 can be tricky. But really, if they cant even finish the phrase "In West Philadelphia born and raised...." (Fresh Prince Theme) Then she isn't even going to be enjoyable to have a real connecting relationship with anyways. The 25 and up crowd, which in my opinion are the sexier women, with jobs, ambitions, cars of there own, intelligent and interesting conversations. They are definitely far more attracted to confidence and intelligence over a petty full head of hair. If you have neither of those two things, then that is your foundational problem which you can fix without an epic panacea for balding. Even a full head of hair wouldn't get you the girls you want.
Now even though I said all that about the younger girls. I am 29, my gf is a 23 year old Yogi addict. She is sexy, she turns heads, but so do I. Because I am a confident, clean shaven, disciplined looking man. (Ok, don't forget to recite that to yourself and join my cult haha).
Seriously though that one guy your all ragging on will get/has a beautiful girl, he has the confidence to go on youtube and make a video about an issue most men will cover up any way possible. Do you know how much balls that takes! A fuckin ton of balls! that's the type of guy that probably see's the hot girl at the bar, that is sooooo hot, no one talks to. Except for him
So to recap:
1) Build your self confidence, without it, even if you had a full head of hair you would be a 30 year old virgin (Ive literally seen this in my own personal friend circle)
2) Make your physique as clean, and strong looking as your now cleanly shaven head is.
3) Be an intelligent person that can host interesting conversations.
I honestly can tell you with those 3 steps, You will succeed. Bic Shave your head, Read some Marcus Aurelius and get yourself a gym membership. Start eating better and watching more comedy movies. Download Tinder and get laid. Live a little
"Download Tinder and get laid."
For me it's more like; download tinder, swipe girls everyday for a week, get a match, no reply, continue swiping, get a match, few replies, stops replying, few more days, get a match, no reply, few more weeks, new match, few replies, organize a date, she flakes out, continue swiping, no matches for weeks, give up on the f*****g thing.
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You need to diversify your pics I would say, if you have a pic of your truck or your car or your w.e. material delete that sh*t now. And NEVER EVER put up pics of you with a ton of other dudes. Maybe ONE but not the first one or all of them. Upload adventure pics from vacations, or pics of you quadding or riding a bicycle even. Look like someone who has fun dates or does something cool sometimes. In your description try saying something that will make em smirk like " I have love spilling coffee on my shirt, I like to help old lady's find there lost keys, and In my spare time I (what ever it is you do) like a boss." or "Seeking a partner to share my toothbrush with" Just be weird with it, I feel those, "Just want to find love" ones wont get you anywhere for sure.
anyways tinder is un necessary, just do the three steps above and let them come.
Also to that "How much do you make comment", you gotta understand that the girls you want are more concerned with where your going, over what you currently have. If they see a guy there, working towards a legitimate dream with passion. That's gona play well into your confidence spectrum, and look good for you. Whether you have hair or don't.
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Then you must have one hell of a sexy face there Freddie. Look who needs hair when your face is pulling them in like that.
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I've been through it all, even got my tinder reviewed on /r/tinder in the past. I managed to get laid because of it. Literally a year of work to get laid. Now I've given up with the thing. It's just not worth the effort, time, disappointment and rejection. I focus my efforts on girls I see in the pub etc. Have yet to be successful, but I focus my energy on my hobbies more than anything nowadays. Girls have brought me little but grief, although I still have hope.
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Remember Gents if your lacking in any of these 3 areas, it doesn't matter if you have hair or don't your going to struggle:
1) Build your self confidence, without it, even if you had a full head of hair you would be a 30 year old virgin (Ive literally seen this in my own personal friend circle). You are beautiful, and a bald is head ALWAYS better than a balding head in my experience.
2) Make your physique as clean, and strong looking as your now cleanly shaven head is. Go to the Gym, become visually physically fit. You don't have to be an Olympian, just give the aura that you care about your fitness level.
3) Be an intelligent person that can host interesting conversations.
1) Build your self confidence, without it, even if you had a full head of hair you would be a 30 year old virgin (Ive literally seen this in my own personal friend circle). You are beautiful, and a bald is head ALWAYS better than a balding head in my experience.
2) Make your physique as clean, and strong looking as your now cleanly shaven head is. Go to the Gym, become visually physically fit. You don't have to be an Olympian, just give the aura that you care about your fitness level.
3) Be an intelligent person that can host interesting conversations.
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I personally just think its funny that people instantly think they don't get ladies because they are balding. That's the EASY answer, the real answer, the one that is always more complex. Could be that other things are lacking, that you need to dissect and affirm, so you can reconstruct better than before.
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"Could be that other things are lacking,",
Yup, height, and facial attractiveness.
Your definitely lacking...
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And your intelligent, valid point would be?
One thing I'm definitely not is inexperienced. I've travelled 20+ countries in the last 5-6 years...i've certainly not been shy of sexual relationships at any time...and much of that time has been with either very closely cropped hair or a completelt shaved head. To the contrary, some of the guys i refer to on that impact forum do nothing more than online dating because they are scared of rejection.
'Inspiring' is the wrong term to use. What this video (and the comments from women crushing on one of the guys and complimenting all of them on a fresher appearance) does do is once again disprove a lot of the nonsense posted in the impact forum...i.e. The absolute kind of statements about how baldness leads to a life of celibacy, a loveless existance etc.
The guy women are crushing on is in reasonably good shape/briad shoulders etc. He looks masculine, maybe even more so with the shaved head - many women are attracted to that look. The other guys look better but are in poor shape. The one would look geeky no matter what because he has zero muscle on his body and wears glasses. Still, shaved head he still manages to look somewhat sophisticated.
Wrong. You're a prime example of someone who, for your own good, needs to stop moping and feeling sorry for himself and make something of your life.
Is a girl that is really hot with a big weird shaped nose lacking other things? No she is perfectly fine with one flaw that if fixed makes her way better. That is exactly what male pattern baldness is to SOME men. There is nothing wrong with striving for perfection it beats being a total loser that doesnt care at all about anything
Hair isnt just about looks and sexual attraction which most guys on here try to boil it down to. Having hair and a hair style is partly just having an identity and a unique look whether its good or bad. All Norwood 7s look the same
Hair isnt just about looks and sexual attraction which most guys on here try to boil it down to. Having hair and a hair style is partly just having an identity and a unique look whether its good or bad. All Norwood 7s look the same