Balding and how it affects how you are treated at work

Gilgamesh

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Johnny24601 said:
My point is that not having hair is so far behind things like work ethic, morality, education, production, physical health, , proper hygene, communication skills, work attitude, ability, effort

Man you're really fooling yourself. You actually think hair is behind these vague and subjective traits? come on, get real.


I think you need to look closely at the animal kingdom to get an unbiased and realistic view of how this life works.
Insecure people (whether it be due to being bald or fat or whatever) will always try to make up for it by trying to be such 'good people. It's all bullshit and deep down inside you know it.

The reason attractive people are 'superficial' (a manmade concept) is because they don't need to sweep over natural instincts with some facade to compensate for their failed social rank.
 

maintainence1

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Johnny24601, I agreed with the your ideas from the beginning posts on this thread, but you crossed the line criticizing someone else's sisters. That's a low blow. Whatever respect you earned for your good attitude you just lost with that offensive and overly judgmental comment.
 

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Ouch!

Just thought i would pip in with a study that i read, which was carried out by my university concerning attractiveness and pay. In short it was found that only women got ahead by looks alone, while no correlation was found in the males.

Yep, i know there are probably plenty of different studies showing different results but i believe it in terms of pay and promotion at work it's only women who get ahead because of their looks.

Having hair is always better than being bald, and naturally, a women given the choice of hair or no hair on a partner, alone with no other factors taken into consideration would always choose hair. Nevertheless, when it comes to pay/promotion and attractiveness there are always other variables that come into play.

If your bald and depressed by it and believe you are no longer attractive and inferior to others, then it will become true. Your negative self image will become a self fuffilling prophecy.

That's my reality anyway.
 

Johnny24601

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I was trying to make a point and change that dudes mindset but I was just joking around. It was not meant to be a low blow, sorry. For the record, I am offended by that dudes point of view and his sister's point of view as well.
Galgamesh, are you serious in saying that the amount of hair on someone's head is more important in life then their work ethic and morality. If so, son you have got to start to mature.
The reaility is we are going to go bald and no matter who you are, either a person who obsesses over physical traits, one who obsesses over personal character or both, our only rational choice (as balding men) is to do what we can to preserve our hair and just accept it and enjoy ourselves. Imagine we are actually allowing our hair to control our life choices and day to day persona. It is just rediculous.
What do we accomplish by saying "hey there are many good looking woman in this world who only date good looking guys and I am balding so they won't want me"? I think the problem isn't that these woman exist, the problem is that there are men who are dissappointed that they can't get these shallow *** woman. Why do you want them. So you can brag to your friends about your hot as girlfriend and then have to deal with her obvious insecurities and shitty persona.
I believe that human beings have not deteriated to the point where the amount of hair follicles on a man's head is constantly judged when poeple are making decisions on their partners, their employees etc., but I could be wrong. Regardless, what are your choices. b**ch, moan and whine why you can't get a chick or get a raise? I think it is all an excuse for one's own lack of self esteem. It is a crutch and bitching about it accomplishes nothing. I see plenty of bald or blading dudes making tons of cash and scoring all sorts of women both attractive physically and mentally.
 

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Oh gees guys! I hate to say it but let's chill out a bit here eh?!

My point in saying that it doesn't matter what's on the outside was to check where our priorities are. Say that you get a hair transplant and your hair is really nice and thick, but you still FEEL that you are not liked because of your years as a Norwood challengee:) Guess what, what matters most...your outside or your inside view of you? Hmmmm....
 

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i want to have sex.
 

everysixseconds

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....just thought id add that. anywho.....
 
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