Loss of self-esteem. And why is that? Why does hair loss = loss of self esteem? It IS because you think you are less attractive to women. So ultimately your loss of self-esteem IS about women. So since some guy on a video, who is trying to convince himself that he's still attractive despite his own baldness, has told you that women are all over him and women are dragging him into bed and the marriage alter forget about your hair, shave your head, and show yourself to women so they can drag you to their bedrooms and the marriage alter.[\Quote]
The problem with your argument is that you seem to assume that women are the ONLY reason men care about hair loss. I am not sure about others but for me personally it's about my own sense of self worth. I want to look handsome in front of everyone including my relatives. However, it appears that you are unable to grasp this concept. It is OK because we all have our individual experiences that determine to a great extent how we perceive the world. It will be very hard for you to understand where I am coming from until you are in my shoe. Call it vanity but I want people to find me as good looking as they used to. The sense of satisfaction you get when all women look at you with sense of awe and men look at you with a sense of admiration and jealousy is indescribable. Your sisters show you off to their friends to impress them. You feel like having a super power. It really hurts when you start to lose that power.
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You really had friends say 'what happened to you'? What sh*t friends. Had you put on weight or anything else?
No, on the contrary, I lost weight because I have been training for a marathon. And not just one friend, many other relatives said the same thing. But it's OK. People in my culture are very brash and direct. It's normal to say things like that to your relatives/frinnds.