are we our on ememy

[Guest]

i have hair loss, yes, and my son also, yet, we all seem too aware of the fact, i never really took hair loss into my awareness until it happened to me, then my son. okay, so then the obsession goes on, i do look at hair on other peoples head, i just became obsessed and jealous. it's been years of this, just myself. i truly hate this.
when i meet a man, i first, listen to his voice and the way he speaks of things, layed back ...confident and doesn't quickly want a piece of ***. then there is respect. i believe it's about attitude with men, know matter what is going on inside of their selves. i can close my door when i went thru the hair loss, and never come out again. truly. yet, i believe i'm allowed to be the same as one who has a full head of hair. this is getting me down.........it is this, we are allowed to be fully human and stand in the same line waiting for a big mac, before 2pm...that's my stand on keeping the weight down, another thread, let's just go on and attitude is everything with me..my son is gonna have to learn that when he grows up and out of it. you're all worried about women and image, just show up and be yourself.
bij

 

[RaginDemon]

i have hair loss, yes, and my son also, yet, we all seem too aware of the fact, i never really took hair loss into my awareness until it happened to me, then my son. okay, so then the obsession goes on, i do look at hair on other peoples head, i just became obsessed and jealous. it's been years of this, just myself. i truly hate this.
when i meet a man, i first, listen to his voice and the way he speaks of things, layed back ...confident and doesn't quickly want a piece of ***. then there is respect. i believe it's about attitude with men, know matter what is going on inside of their selves. i can close my door when i went thru the hair loss, and never come out again. truly. yet, i believe i'm allowed to be the same as one who has a full head of hair. this is getting me down.........it is this, we are allowed to be fully human and stand in the same line waiting for a big mac, before 2pm...that's my stand on keeping the weight down, another thread, let's just go on and attitude is everything with me..my son is gonna have to learn that when he grows up and out of it. you're all worried about women and image, just show up and be yourself.
bij

Well said.

 

[s.a.f]

when i meet a man, i first, listen to his voice and the way he speaks of things, layed back ...confident and doesn't quickly want a piece of ***. then there is respect. i believe it's about attitude with men, know matter what is going on inside of their selves.
you're all worried about women and image, just show up and be yourself.

This may be true to a certain extent (you and I both know that) and although here it is being confirmed by a woman, you cant really expect some of the guys on here in their late teens and early 20's to believe this.
I guess womens opinions change as they get older?
Anyway the problem is that many of the guys on here are only interested in women for their looks so they think women think the same way.

 

[Guest]

i think i think is what we wake up and go along with our badselves, is what takes us up or down...it's called a f*****g mirror my fiends. i try to tend to look elsewhere, yet that is a tough mind set. thank ya both for your insight. love it. what have we become?????????????? yes, women are tough, they want everything , do not lose a clue on this one, attitide is everthing....not looks!!!!!! been there done that. it's truly a greatsense of one self....we all over think our own selves to the point that we are OUR OWN EMEMY.................love ya all and will never stop with the issue ..neverexcuse the spelling, did not get my reading glasses yet, maybe i just don't want them