The technology today is top of the line. There is room for improvement with some of the bonds though. Systems in general have come a drastic way when compared to your grandfathers toupee's of the 60's and 70's and even a very long way since Sy Sperling's hair club of the 90's. That being said at the end of the day they will always be what they are from the outsiders looking in... Wigs.
And with that will always come the negative stigma where men wearing hair just isn't fully accepted into society, unfortunately. I wish it wasn't this way and boy do I WISH this were the #1 option for guys instead of hopping on a plane and running into a clinic to get cut up for a surgery that in all honesty probably carries a solid 25% chance of not turning out the way they want, but hey, I can't get all my wishes. I personally am in a similar boat as you and while I'd love a good transplant and to never have to worry about maintenance or bond breaking down on a hot day, if systems were completely acceptable I wouldn't think twice about them. I still will likely try one someday soon, but tell me a guy who thinks he wants to sign up for telling a girl he wears a rug a few weeks into dating some chick he likes.
But, if you have the right mindset, are creative with your hands, and just don't give a F in general if you were ever outed, then I would suggest trying a system before a surgery for sure. Do I think they are "the future"? Yes and no. I mean I do think they will grow in popularity more and more, but I also don't think, at least not anytime soon, that they will have some massive breakthrough to where they break into the real mainstream.