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This is an open message to you. Can't believe I am doing this.
I really sympathize with you. And I have been following your threads for a while. And it has taken me aback, never seen BDD so volatile in my life.
Ok so you are bald, lets reframe your whole entire existance at this moment in time. You come across a guy with a chip on his shoulder (I have no bias against you as I have joined recently, so do not take this as an attack), fair enough its tragic what has happened to you. You clearly let baldness dictate your every action in life, right down to your deepest thoughts. If this is the way you want to live, so be it.
But have you ever thought about reframing your whole situation, by embracing your baldness and accepting the reality that you could possibly help other people that are also bald and may be suffering from BDD like you have done, get over it? Can you imagine how many lives you can change by getting over your BDD, as you can pass on your knowledge in the form of the coping mechanisms you have developed to guys who are also psychologically affected in the same way that you are now.
Can you imagine the endless possibilities this can create for you. f***, you would be better then any shrink, any psychologist, therapist as you have been there, you know the motions, you will have the tools in your toolkit to handle it. You will have real credibility.
Can you imagine how many guys you will inspire that come on here, that who after reading your older posts see how you eventually become a changed man, with your quality of life improving generally due to you DICTATING your reality and not the baldness.
I know I would be if I became a NW7 and fell into deep depression, be inspired by you. Heck you may even be able to help me.
Can you imagine the self-satisfaction you will get, if you are able to help people change the quality of their lives for the better.
This is your gift Uncomfortable Man. Your baldness is only a curse if you see it that way, on the other hand it can also be seen as a blessing in disguise. You have the potential to be great, I don't think you know it. What you lack is believe in yourself.
I really sympathize with you. And I have been following your threads for a while. And it has taken me aback, never seen BDD so volatile in my life.
Ok so you are bald, lets reframe your whole entire existance at this moment in time. You come across a guy with a chip on his shoulder (I have no bias against you as I have joined recently, so do not take this as an attack), fair enough its tragic what has happened to you. You clearly let baldness dictate your every action in life, right down to your deepest thoughts. If this is the way you want to live, so be it.
But have you ever thought about reframing your whole situation, by embracing your baldness and accepting the reality that you could possibly help other people that are also bald and may be suffering from BDD like you have done, get over it? Can you imagine how many lives you can change by getting over your BDD, as you can pass on your knowledge in the form of the coping mechanisms you have developed to guys who are also psychologically affected in the same way that you are now.
Can you imagine the endless possibilities this can create for you. f***, you would be better then any shrink, any psychologist, therapist as you have been there, you know the motions, you will have the tools in your toolkit to handle it. You will have real credibility.
Can you imagine how many guys you will inspire that come on here, that who after reading your older posts see how you eventually become a changed man, with your quality of life improving generally due to you DICTATING your reality and not the baldness.
I know I would be if I became a NW7 and fell into deep depression, be inspired by you. Heck you may even be able to help me.
Can you imagine the self-satisfaction you will get, if you are able to help people change the quality of their lives for the better.
This is your gift Uncomfortable Man. Your baldness is only a curse if you see it that way, on the other hand it can also be seen as a blessing in disguise. You have the potential to be great, I don't think you know it. What you lack is believe in yourself.