A word of advice to the youngins

[barcafan]

The ones that are just starting (or so they think) to experience male pattern baldness

A quote from No Country for Old Men

"Well all the time ya spend trying to get back what's been took from ya, more is going out the door"

In the sense that the time you spend worrying about non-detectable signs of balding is all for naught, and youre just wasting your own time worrying about sh*t when you should be enjoying yourself. Most everyone does it, and it does nothing for anyone. If you choose to use treatments, use them and put it out of your mind.

 

[uncomfortable man]

Good advice. Good movie. Good Barca.

 

[gascoigne]

Will that stop our hair loss?
Will that for someone who have 26 (and stareted losing in 22) save his front and dont make him look : "wow friend, what is with your hair, you are half gone on he front" ?

 

[barcafan]

does crying about it on a forum stop the hairloss? Does worrying about it incessantly stop it?

the answer is no it's just a waste of time, and in young peoples case a waste of their best years. I dont expect aspies to understand.

 

[gascoigne]

does crying about it on a forum stop the hairloss? Does worrying about it incessantly stop it?

the answer is no it's just a waste of time, and in young peoples case a waste of their best years. I dont expect aspies to understand.

It wont either. I just dont see sense in your attitude as it is some einstetin manner conclusion.
Its still hard.

 

[barcafan]

would it help if i posted a study?

how hard would you get if it was a meta-analysis?

 

[uncomfortable man]

I'm drafting up a power-point presentation pronto. You'll spread cheeks for my spread sheets...

 

[kejan]

Good post Barca.

I've been saying this as well for months. Try to make the best out of a bad situation.
If it's wearing a wig, using rogaine, popping finasteride tablets or sprinkling concealer in your hair. Do what makes you feel and look better about yourself and try and move on.

 

[shala]

this whole site is so depressing for youngsters like me. i still have a good head of hair but this forum screams that male pattern baldness is the end of everything, no hope on the horizon, girls reject you, society laughts to you etc.............. no offense but as a 30+ yr i don't want to be like UCman (angry man who still hasn't accepted baldness). sadly i can see myself becoming one. f*****g great.

good advice tho.

 

[uncomfortable man]

this whole site is so depressing for youngsters like me. i still have a good head of hair but this forum screams that male pattern baldness is the end of everything, no hope on the horizon, girls reject you, society laughts to you etc.............. no offense but as a 30+ yr i don't want to be like UCman (angry man who still hasn't accepted baldness). sadly i can see myself becoming one. f****ing great.

good advice tho.

I don't like my reality any more than you do. But I have my reasons for feeling the way I do which I have covered extensively.

 

[ugh]

U will never live the life u could have if u had hair. Good thing nothing lasts forever.

 

[barcafan]

youre right ill live a better life