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being a very young 25 year i have often found myself questioning my attractiveness as compared, with other males my age. being almost bald and seriously lacking self confidence i have become very concerned about my overall sex appeal.
of late; i have noticed that girls around thier mid 30's tend to show interest in me. it lead me to the question the fact that i may be officially quite UGLY. im not bitching or being mad, but nevertheless i reckon i'm being quite truthfull.
i did however meet a girl (26) over the internet quite a while back (not that i roam around on the net out of desperation!!). well, after getting to know this girl over a common interest, we started getting a bit personal and found that we have allot of things in common. we laughed and made each other quite happy.
so after a while things progressed a little, and being both single we both agreed to swap phone numebers and get to know each other a bit.
MAN it was hard when ever we spoke about sumthing, or anything which i percieved was heading towards ''hair and hair issues'', i quickly ducked and cunningly diverted the conversation. A good example of this was a time when she mentioned she was now good at cutting other peoples hair i.e. her nephews and nieces and stuff.
at this present moment in time, ive found myself in a situation, where i kind have like this girl. from what i know of her and her her looks she comes across as a very pretty girl. Also she is blessed with a blinding personality. from what she knows of me i can confidently attest that she's taken a shine to me to.
YEP UVE PROBABLY ALREADY GUESSED IT;
the dilemna came actually a few days back
IT WAS THAT INEVITABLE DREADED TIME TO SEND HER A PIC OF MYSELF !! AHH MAN WHY ME WHY MEI RANG OUT AND LASHED OUT THE FIRST VICTIM NEAR ME (LUCKYLY IT WAS THE PILLOW ON MY BED)!!???
so having not much of a choice but to send her my pic. i did. BAD IDEA?
well i'll tell ya who knows; MEEEEEE!!, as of 30 mins ago from now. she called me to confirm that she actually recieved the email, you'll never guess what she says. first she goes on about my dress sense. fair enough,i was getting kinda happy (she might not have noticed that shinny head of mine). but but but. check this....
the pic i sent to her was actually of me and my uncle in france. my uncle is 37 might i add. he has hair, hes kinda good in the looks department as well. i on the other hand was there. slightly taller than him, and in my own little world b4 i actually sent the pic; was totally OBLIVIOUS TO THE FACT THAT I MIGHT GET MISTAKEN FOR MY UNCLE!!.
lifes a b**ch!!! i should kindly state here. what i never even percieved of happening actually happened.
after complaining about my dress sense in a 'jesting' way, she later went on to say, ''well atleast your not like your uncle'' and she laughed. after some temporary confusion, i managed to work out why she chuckled a bit.
THE FACT OF THE MATTER WAS THAT, I GOT MISTAKEN FOR BEING MY UNCLE, A 37 YEAR OLD GUY AT THAT.
AND MY UNCLE GOT MISTAKEN FOR BEING ME.
ME = UNCLE
UNCLE = ME
not only was that bad.
she went on to say that i was a bit ''SPUNKY'', as in goodlooking. she didnt metion anything about the actual me.
i was horrified; i trully was, im already trying to resist a major breakdown because of this whole hairloss sh*t. i was doing quite well up until today. i was contemplating going on prozac a few days ago. that should give you an idea what i was, and am still going through.
im 5'9 inches tall, thats about 176cm's and 80 odd kg 12 stones. im gonna start excercising soon. this extremely embarrassing situation has given me motivation to do so. trust me it has. i also smoke about 30 ciggs a day. so thats gonna go out the window aswell. i think ill need all the help i cn get to look good.
does anyone know of any websites that help baldy guys to look thier best. i.e tips, with regards to making thier baldness not seem so apparent in thier daily socailising circles aprt from wearing the obvious hats and berrets 24/7. i dunno any suggestions would be warmly welcomed and appreciated.
has anyone else had similar expiriences.
ohh yeah, by the way, i havent yet told her who's the uncle and who was really me, i didnt even think that this would have happened in the first instance. i think ill let a coupla days elapse b4 i decide to tell her or not. im avoiding her calls. and even made some bullshit story that i gotta go away for a few days on a business trip over a text message, i bailed on her jus like that.
i feel so ashamed of my self, i never did feel like this. i feel like crawling under a big stone.
so many missed opportunities as a result of this hair situation, i cannot even begin to quantify, why are others allowed to be happy and NOT ME??
i feel so wronged and helpless.
if i was a very powerful leader i.e like the american president, i would have pledged 10 dollars from every citizen in the whole of the western world to give in taxes towards this shitty cause. you can send people to the moon, but why cant someone send hairs shooting out of my scalp.
sorry for the ultra long sulk guys,,,
and for the younger folks in this forum, ive noticed some 20 yr olds posting some sh*t, and even 16 year old guys with embryonic male pattern baldness. i extend my sincere apologies to you, should u happen to come across this horrible expirience of mine. but this is reality guys. this sorta sh*t will happen to u some time soon, im quite sure of that.
i gues im doing you guys a favour in a strange way, by preparing you to expect these shitty scenarios. f*** even my 52year old lecturer pointed out my hairloss. not directly but indirectly, by saying ''some of you may remeber the old lotus visicalc spreadsheet( i later found out that it was about 10 years b4 i was even born). he pointed out at me trying to get a nod out of me, in an agreement sort of thing..
well, thats the end of my rant i suppose, i guess im jus gona have to face the fact that ill have to pull out my plastic for some jiggy jiggy in the future, or stick to the forever willing hands!! lol
but seriously; id love to hear of any other people that might have hadwierd expiriences, and how theyve dealt with the sh*t.
peace out, your brother john ( AKA, baldy locks and the three hairs).
of late; i have noticed that girls around thier mid 30's tend to show interest in me. it lead me to the question the fact that i may be officially quite UGLY. im not bitching or being mad, but nevertheless i reckon i'm being quite truthfull.
i did however meet a girl (26) over the internet quite a while back (not that i roam around on the net out of desperation!!). well, after getting to know this girl over a common interest, we started getting a bit personal and found that we have allot of things in common. we laughed and made each other quite happy.
so after a while things progressed a little, and being both single we both agreed to swap phone numebers and get to know each other a bit.
MAN it was hard when ever we spoke about sumthing, or anything which i percieved was heading towards ''hair and hair issues'', i quickly ducked and cunningly diverted the conversation. A good example of this was a time when she mentioned she was now good at cutting other peoples hair i.e. her nephews and nieces and stuff.
at this present moment in time, ive found myself in a situation, where i kind have like this girl. from what i know of her and her her looks she comes across as a very pretty girl. Also she is blessed with a blinding personality. from what she knows of me i can confidently attest that she's taken a shine to me to.
YEP UVE PROBABLY ALREADY GUESSED IT;
the dilemna came actually a few days back
IT WAS THAT INEVITABLE DREADED TIME TO SEND HER A PIC OF MYSELF !! AHH MAN WHY ME WHY MEI RANG OUT AND LASHED OUT THE FIRST VICTIM NEAR ME (LUCKYLY IT WAS THE PILLOW ON MY BED)!!???
so having not much of a choice but to send her my pic. i did. BAD IDEA?
well i'll tell ya who knows; MEEEEEE!!, as of 30 mins ago from now. she called me to confirm that she actually recieved the email, you'll never guess what she says. first she goes on about my dress sense. fair enough,i was getting kinda happy (she might not have noticed that shinny head of mine). but but but. check this....
the pic i sent to her was actually of me and my uncle in france. my uncle is 37 might i add. he has hair, hes kinda good in the looks department as well. i on the other hand was there. slightly taller than him, and in my own little world b4 i actually sent the pic; was totally OBLIVIOUS TO THE FACT THAT I MIGHT GET MISTAKEN FOR MY UNCLE!!.
lifes a b**ch!!! i should kindly state here. what i never even percieved of happening actually happened.
after complaining about my dress sense in a 'jesting' way, she later went on to say, ''well atleast your not like your uncle'' and she laughed. after some temporary confusion, i managed to work out why she chuckled a bit.
THE FACT OF THE MATTER WAS THAT, I GOT MISTAKEN FOR BEING MY UNCLE, A 37 YEAR OLD GUY AT THAT.
AND MY UNCLE GOT MISTAKEN FOR BEING ME.
ME = UNCLE
UNCLE = ME
not only was that bad.
she went on to say that i was a bit ''SPUNKY'', as in goodlooking. she didnt metion anything about the actual me.
i was horrified; i trully was, im already trying to resist a major breakdown because of this whole hairloss sh*t. i was doing quite well up until today. i was contemplating going on prozac a few days ago. that should give you an idea what i was, and am still going through.
im 5'9 inches tall, thats about 176cm's and 80 odd kg 12 stones. im gonna start excercising soon. this extremely embarrassing situation has given me motivation to do so. trust me it has. i also smoke about 30 ciggs a day. so thats gonna go out the window aswell. i think ill need all the help i cn get to look good.
does anyone know of any websites that help baldy guys to look thier best. i.e tips, with regards to making thier baldness not seem so apparent in thier daily socailising circles aprt from wearing the obvious hats and berrets 24/7. i dunno any suggestions would be warmly welcomed and appreciated.
has anyone else had similar expiriences.
ohh yeah, by the way, i havent yet told her who's the uncle and who was really me, i didnt even think that this would have happened in the first instance. i think ill let a coupla days elapse b4 i decide to tell her or not. im avoiding her calls. and even made some bullshit story that i gotta go away for a few days on a business trip over a text message, i bailed on her jus like that.
i feel so ashamed of my self, i never did feel like this. i feel like crawling under a big stone.
so many missed opportunities as a result of this hair situation, i cannot even begin to quantify, why are others allowed to be happy and NOT ME??
i feel so wronged and helpless.
if i was a very powerful leader i.e like the american president, i would have pledged 10 dollars from every citizen in the whole of the western world to give in taxes towards this shitty cause. you can send people to the moon, but why cant someone send hairs shooting out of my scalp.
sorry for the ultra long sulk guys,,,
and for the younger folks in this forum, ive noticed some 20 yr olds posting some sh*t, and even 16 year old guys with embryonic male pattern baldness. i extend my sincere apologies to you, should u happen to come across this horrible expirience of mine. but this is reality guys. this sorta sh*t will happen to u some time soon, im quite sure of that.
i gues im doing you guys a favour in a strange way, by preparing you to expect these shitty scenarios. f*** even my 52year old lecturer pointed out my hairloss. not directly but indirectly, by saying ''some of you may remeber the old lotus visicalc spreadsheet( i later found out that it was about 10 years b4 i was even born). he pointed out at me trying to get a nod out of me, in an agreement sort of thing..
well, thats the end of my rant i suppose, i guess im jus gona have to face the fact that ill have to pull out my plastic for some jiggy jiggy in the future, or stick to the forever willing hands!! lol
but seriously; id love to hear of any other people that might have hadwierd expiriences, and how theyve dealt with the sh*t.
peace out, your brother john ( AKA, baldy locks and the three hairs).