Dude. Let me tell you something. I am going to tell you a story of someone I used to know back when I was in HS.
This kid was tall compared to the other ones his age and he was a pretty decent, good looking guy. Girls would fall on his feet everyday asking for his Facebook or telephone number and yet he seemed not to care, but it wasn't that he really didn't care. He was just too awkward and shy to answer or interact with them properly. One day, in his freshman year, he met a girl that years later would become the love of his life, and the same love of his life that would crush his heart even later on. But do you think he was the one who took any attitude? Nah, she would always be talking, making jokes to steal him a smile, texting him and he would always answer as shortly as possible. With time he became more easy going and she was the only girl he would interact with no problem at all. That kid was me, dude.
Now being that said, I am talking about a high schooler perspective. People in HS are more talkative, interactive and easy going than people in college, for example. I am almost a senior in college and so far NO ONE approached me like people who used to do so in HS. Let alone girls. I might be tall, might have good features but I still struggle with social interactions. At the end of the day, it doesn't matter whether you are tall, bald, good looking or whatever, as long as you have CONFIDENCE. I am still trying to build confidence myself but the fact that I am not satisfied with my looks 100% i.e hair loss makes my situation very difficult to deal with, but sooner or later I'll have to wake up to the real world. Rather sooner than later.
I am being honest with you, you are REALLY GOOD LOOKING. What if you are small? My brother is smaller than me, so small that people think he is not my brother, but yet he deals with people like no one. He is my idol, my hero, and someone I aspire to be someday even though being younger than me. Know how to use your features! Go to gym, go to college or even at work, try to make efforts to interact with people. I may be contradicting myself as it's something I am not really doing lately, but I DO ACKNOWLEDGE that is the only way to, if that is your goal, meet new people (girls especially).
Complaining on internet won't lead you anywhere. Go slay, king
Girls would fall on his feet everyday asking for his Facebook or telephone number and yet he seemed not to care, but it wasn't that he really didn't care. He was just too awkward and shy to answer or interact with them properly. One day, in his freshman year, he met a girl that years later would become the love of his life, and the same love of his life that would crush his heart even later on. But do you think he was the one who took any attitude? Nah, she would always be talking, making jokes to steal him a smile, texting him and he would always answer as shortly as possible.
So,you start off telling a story about a AWKWARD,shy boy with no attitude,who struggled to Interact with girls. Yet,girls would still approach him,ask him for his social media.
Later on,you say looks dont matter,and its ALL about confidence. Now,there is a huge contradiction in your text,dude.
You are tall and good looking,but in HS you claimed not to have confidence or attitude. But girls still approached you. Did they smell your confidence? Or maybe you will Tell me to take 10 showers a day?
Your life experiência proofs the opposite of what you are saying,mate. Girls approached you by your looks alone,so its easy for you to say "ITS ALL ABOUT CONFIDENCE BRO",when you didnt ever need this in the First place. Confidence is molded by the way you look/the way people perceive you,and getting positive reinforcement throughout life. "Just be confident" is a generic advice for ugly guys to work harder to get a girl. Meanwhile,the good looking ones never thought of It,they Just have to exist and women will crawl over their feet,as own experiência proves me right.
There was a guy in HS as well,he studied in my class. He was a good looking blue-eyed tall dude. He was weird,awkward,didnt have any confidence at all. But every girl in my class approached him,they were literally thisrty for him.
So i came to the conclusion that,height and face are the most important things you have. These features Will turn you into an incel,or a Slayer Chad. Your genetics dictate your fate and mold your life.
Personality is a meme. Your personality is Based and perceived by your looks. A confident 5'3" ugly guy sounds Gross. You can't act like a lion,when you are in reality,a deer. This guy will be treated like a creep,weird f***,and people Will put him in his place.
