The way a woman's mind works- Gunner was right maybe

TourdeForce24

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In my observations of the opposite sex at work, I have come to the conclusion that most girl's lives revolve around their own physicality and the physicality of those around them. I work with some of the hottest girls you will ever meet, and I work with some average looking girls. It doesn't matter. Both examples of girls act in the same manner.

Some examples of their behavior:

-The supervisor I work with is a Norwood 6, probably about 35 years old. None of these girls like him for some reason even though the guy gives them extra work and is often very reasonable concerning pay, flexible time, etc. They treat him with little respect and act like he is the worst boss to ever work for. This is hardly the case. In many ways these girls are just getting by on their looks and their ability to attract people to the booths (booth babes). Well, the guy takes a vacation this weekend and his temporary replacement is a guy about 25 years old with a full head of hair. He's the tall, dark, handsome type as they say. The girls just absolutely swoon over the guy, even though he has no real personality. When he talked to them, they would all arch their backs and do the eye-fluttering sh*t. Anyway, the guy actually made us stay later than our manager ever would have, but none of these girls bitched like they normally do. For some reason, because THIS dude did it, it was all perfectly OK.

-All of these girls, whether attractive or not, consistently look for less attractive girls to talk to while they are working. The average looking ones bad-mouth the really hot ones. The average looking girls look for less-attractive girls to surround themselves with so that they can feel like the hottest in the bunch. Often the average looking ones don't want to work with the hot ones, either. The super hot ones don't care, because they know they are hotter than anyone else anyway. They talk to the less than average ones in a condescending way, like they were slow-witted or something. They always say, "She's a nice girl" with a fake smile or something to that extent. It's all a superficial game.

-They constantly look at girls passing by. If she's hotter than her, she's automatically a "sl*t," "trying too hard," or "wearing too much makeup." If a really hot girl approaches one of our booths, the girls give her dirty looks. God forbid if a girl has large breasts and is showing off her cleavage. The daggers come immediately out. "Oh, she's just drawing attention from her ugly face," they'll say. Of course the girl isn't ugly at all. It seems they can't stand to bear it when an attractive girl is anywhere near them in the same vicinity.

-If a girl approaches our booth with a really good looking guy on her shoulder, then she gets even more icy cold stares. "What is HE doing with HER?" they ask.

-Finally, most of these girls constantly talk about the physical features of each other and their male counterparts ALL THE TIME. This one girl I know talks about a fellow co worker's Jesus hair all the time. She says it's "so beautiful" and all that sh*t, and it's always when I'm standing around her. It's so annoying. She'll say I have nice eyes, but nothing else. She'll stop talking to me during a conversation because this guy walks by or someone else that she thinks is "cute." Often the people she likes are ***-backward morons. I just don't get it.

I think this shows that Gunner was partially right. Girls (average or hot) are all consumed by the superficial, and if this is true we are all consequently fucked. It's sad, really. If you're a tall, dark, handsome guy with hair, you've got it made with the females. They don't even seem to care if you have a nice body or not. The guy I mentioned earlier is a skinny b**ch, yet they all look at him like they want him to f*** them right then and there.

I'm going to law school, and I'm going to make some coin. THAT is the only thing these girls understand or want possibly more than a good-looking guy. When talking about marriage, first and foremost, they want a good looking guy with money. Secondly, an average looking guy with money. Then, an ugly or even balding (gasp!) guy with piles of cash (I'm talking like you better have a house in the Hamptons kind of cash). Lastly, if they just want a nice f*** without marriage considerations, they'll go for any guy they consider "gorgeous." They usually are in this phase from the age of 18-25, so it looks like I won't be getting any action for a few more years until I get out of law school. Then, bam, just when they are ready to stop f*****g around, I'll be money.

That's life, fellas. Don't kid yourselves with romance, thoughts of higher understanding, and a girl who loves you for you. It's all bullshit fed to us by the creators of false hope- the religions and losers. Love is defined by "how much do you earn per year and will you be able to finance my shopping addiction?" If you want a hot girl to settle down with and you've lost some or all of your hair, get money. That's that. If you don't, you have no chance of happiness with a woman. Sure, you can be happy on your own, but what fun is that in the long run?
 

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tourdeforce,
what is the qualification of these hot girls? They may not be well educated. Any well educated woman (one who has a masters degre, phd, mba etc) will behave better.
 
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Find an independent women who doesn't want to spend YOUR money, because she's smart enough to make her OWN money. Don't f*** around with dumb b****s, especially not you Tour, your going to be a lawyer... Find a cool *** lawyer chick...
 

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OMG, you just summed it all up right there.
You must be my long lost relative.

That is EXACTLY almost word for word how I think and my same
observations.
And my ex gf was just like those girls. A superficial b**ch that just took my money.
 

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bgred90 said:
OMG, you just summed it all up right there.
You must be my long lost relative.

That is EXACTLY almost word for word how I think and my same
observations.
And my ex gf was just like those girls. A superficial b**ch that just took my money.

Assuming she didn't steal your money in which case you should have phoned the police...she can't take your money unless you are willing to give it to her. There lies your mistake. If some idiot offered you free money you'd take it, why should she be any different?

It's a fact, inferior men buy womens affections, superior men recieve those same affections free of charge. Your choice.
 

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Women are crazy and many are very vain and have poor morals but many men are the same. In fact there are just as many women who are vain and catty as there are men who treat women as objects. I would argue that these women's actions are associated with the fact that most of the men they meet over value their looks so they fall victim to their surroundings and turn into useless trophies.
I also believe that much of what you have said could be based on a pre-set negative point of view that you, me and many other men have towards women.
In the end, who cares. All we can control is our own actions. If it is too much to take then get another job. Our world is currently very plastic and all of us need to do what we can to impress on others that it is one's character, morality and humanity that define an individual. Also, rememeber that all these "hotties" will soon be wrinkly and sagging and have nothing to fall back on.
 
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tour,

you sound pissed off about the way those women behave and yet you talk about getting money so you can hook this kind of chick.

Why not try and find some women who don't just dig on appearance. They do exsist.
 

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Assuming she didn't steal your money in which case you should have phoned the police...she can't take your money unless you are willing to give it to her. There lies your mistake. If some idiot offered you free money you'd take it, why should she be any different?

It's a fact, inferior men buy womens affections, superior men recieve those same affections free of charge. Your choice.


LOL!

You just got owned by lizzard, bgred90.
 
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Tour, didn't you say you were in law school? That should be a great place to meet women. College/school has always been the best place to meet women, especially since they're not 100% concerned with looks. Some of the women in law school should put a little value on intelligence.
 

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Bear in mind Tour, that the girls you work with are not representative of women on the whole...There are some good women out there.

True though, some women never surprise me with how pathetically insecure they can be. Like my sister, sh*t man...Now there is a women you stay away from.
 

TourdeForce24

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Alopecia-Nate said:
Tour, didn't you say you were in law school? That should be a great place to meet women. College/school has always been the best place to meet women, especially since they're not 100% concerned with looks. Some of the women in law school should put a little value on intelligence.


Not in law school yet. I am in the process of figuring out my options concerning it. It's quite alot of stuff to deal with- much more so than an undergraduate school.

I have a great interest in the law and the compensation wouldn't be the sole reason I would enter into this field, but I must admit that it is a great motivating and determining factor. Seems to me that if you aren't earning at least an upper middle class salary in this increasingly "plastic" world that even personal happiness is hard to come by, let alone providing a stable income to meet your family's educational, emotional, and physical needs.

In response to ColdCrush, I certainly do not wish to date these types of superficial girls. It seems like to me that these are the only types of girls that I am consistently meeting whether I am at work or when I was in undergraduate college. I do live in a highly superficial metropolitan area in the U.S., and that could be a significant part of this. If any of you guys have suggestions as to where to find girls who are as of yet untainted and unspoiled, by all means let me know. But something tells me that many of you are having the same problem as me and that this kind of behavior is indicative of a trend concerning the female gender and perhaps all of humanity.

Honestly, I don't need a Jessica Alba look-alike bimbo. I just want a reasonably fit/attractive, intelligent nice girl who laughs every once in a while at my jokes and pays me some attention (and I to her) It seems this is too much to ask for nowadays. No wonder I find myself becoming increasingly attracted to 30-somethings women, and them to me as well.
 
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Then go with the 30-something women. You can date young bimbos for the rest of your life--ask Paul McCartney, he's got one foot in the grave and he's still makin' babies--but you can only be the younger guy for a very short while. Milk the milf for all their worth while you can.
 
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I don't know where I can recommend for you - Europe maybe :lol:

I have a good friend - a British girl who was living in the US (NYC) and she was telling me how different the whole dating thing was there.

She thought that women were on the whole more interested in a guy's money and 'looks' (how me he fits the 'Norm'), but she put that down to the way guys treat women there - i.e. not very well. That is to say that since the girl did not expect to be treated nicely she is just on the look out for what she can get.

But I don't really know how that helps you. Maybe you can be a 'nice' guy - I hope you do find a genuine, nice girl.

I do think that young people in general these days are given extremely high expectations. I mean, for my parents to own their own house perhaps a car and meybe go on a foreign holiday every year was a real achievment. Nowadays a 'normal' job struggles to pay for these things and yet the sort of 'norms' that are shown in advertising and a lot of TV are bordering on the imoral in my opinion. It seems like people are constantly being told that being normal just isn't enough.

The sort of low self esteem the generation of kids growing up watching the OC are going to have scares me.

Sorry 'bout the ranting. I do feel for you though - I'm off women at the moment for that very reason.
 

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im a solid norword 2.5, i have never bought ANYTHING for a girl in my life and i get more girls then any of my friends

what does that tell you?
 

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coldcrush said:
I don't know where I can recommend for you - Europe maybe :lol:

I have a good friend - a British girl who was living in the US (NYC) and she was telling me how different the whole dating thing was there.

She thought that women were on the whole more interested in a guy's money and 'looks' (how me he fits the 'Norm'), but she put that down to the way guys treat women there - i.e. not very well. That is to say that since the girl did not expect to be treated nicely she is just on the look out for what she can get.

But I don't really know how that helps you. Maybe you can be a 'nice' guy - I hope you do find a genuine, nice girl.

I do think that young people in general these days are given extremely high expectations. I mean, for my parents to own their own house perhaps a car and meybe go on a foreign holiday every year was a real achievment. Nowadays a 'normal' job struggles to pay for these things and yet the sort of 'norms' that are shown in advertising and a lot of TV are bordering on the imoral in my opinion. It seems like people are constantly being told that being normal just isn't enough.

The sort of low self esteem the generation of kids growing up watching the OC are going to have scares me.

Sorry 'bout the ranting. I do feel for you though - I'm off women at the moment for that very reason.

This is pretty much how Ive felt for awhile and it has nothing to do with what I think that they're thinking of my hair. Im a good looking guy, but I can smeel this type of girl a mile away and they are ALL OVER THE PLACE! They'll say hi or give me a look and Ill just politley say hi and keep on walking. Unless she is just a real knock-out, the kind of knock-out looking girl you may see just a few times a year. After all, they are a bunch of just average looking girls that alot of people consider and pass off as 'hot' but they just fail to impress for the most part.
 
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Thank you, Wangho, your post was both insightful and thought provoking.
 

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I don't really have terrible self-esteem issues, but I see the road the U.S. is travelling down and the "normal" guy isn't on any of the main stopping points. People here have to fight like hell just to get a paltry minimum wage increased a few cents. I don't want an O.C. type lifestyle, and I laugh at the bimbos/mimbos who embrace it. I just want a decent life for me and my family. If my future family wants to go to Italy or France for a week or two, I want to be able to do that for them. If they want to go to a certain college, again, I want to be able to send them there. I don't need a BMW in the driveway to be happy, but then again middle class is shrinking over here across the pond. I don't want to be unhappy because my income isn't cutting it. Like you said, you used to be able to stretch your dollar a little farther, but that is no longer the case in the U.S. And looking at all the signs (unlike many my age, I read the papers in depth), it's only going to get worse.

As far looks go myself, it's not like I'm an ugly guy. I get some attention from women, but like I said before it's usually older women (around 30) for some reason. It's not as if I have nothing physically to offer the opposite sex. I just don't fit the tall, dark, handsome mold, and consequently get passed over for guys who do.

As for 20-something girls in America who get treated badly by men, the reason for that could be that they always seem to go for the guys who treat them badly. It's a byproduct of their own behavior. They go for guys based solely on their looks, and then they act surprised when the guy turns out to have a rotten outlook on life or horrid personality. Personally I think they even like to be treated badly, just so long as they are getting attention of some kind. It's a viscious cycle that repeats itself. The guys treat the girls like sh*t because they know they can. The girls stay with the asses because it gives them a little thrill and they are too insecure to think they could have someone better. I don't know where this leaves me or other guys like me. I supposed I will just wait until I am 30, when all these girls grow up and want to settle down with a nice, financial stable guy. Hopefully, that will be me by then. Or I'll just be one of those rich guys who scoop up the younger girls before they become jaded and unbearable. :wink:
 

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I understand that I had a choice.
I fucked up big time on that and I have to live with the loss.
But there was money stolen from me that I never reported, and it is a longer story than I just posted.

So, NO, I was not owned by anyone.
And im not trying to steal this thread.
 
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