My conversation with the guy who got me on propecia

[Far Too Young]

Some of CCS' posts look like an incoherent stream of thoughts.

To be honest, I was thinking that his recent posts are far more coherent and gramatically sound then some of the good old ones. Don't leave us CCS. We appreciate you. (I'm not worried, though.)

 

[CCS]

BTW 'The Economist', a news magazine I subscribe to, is hosting a debate on the "dating market". How's about applying economic theory to dating and relationships? Remember guys, scarcity creates value.
http://www.economist.com/blogs/freeexch ... market.cfm

Already did that. I base a lot of stuff on that. My friends say I should write it all out and get an honorary PhD in sociology. I could bring a lot of math into it to. Calculus and other stuff applies.

But I don't want to write out 1000 pages of stuff everyone already knows but will deny. If I had to defend my disertation, I'm sure personal views would interfere. A few people would learn something, but a lot would be pissed that I pulled them out of their false reality for a minute.

Anyway, dating is like bartering in a street market. Some people try to get you to buy them stuff, and if you look desperate, they up the price. Other people who look worse than you try to get a date without paying, or try to get you to agree not to have sex with anyone good looking and just have sex with them. Nothing wrong in asking, but it is all about knowing what you are worth. It is like job salary negotiation. If you are content working 60 hours per week for $25k, your boss will not complain, or tell you that the company across the street pays 3x that much. If you get a pretty woman, you tell her you think she is sexy and you want to do her and sing to her, but you don't let on that you actually are lucky to have her. You might say it as a romantic jesture, but with the undertone of she is lucky too. You definitely don't inform her that she can have any of those hot guys she wants. You tell her she is taken and if you really smart, don't tell them you are her boyfriend. Your boss tells the other companies that you are a bad worker and make $100k, so they won't even approach you. Some women boast how big your dick is, and hopefully don't get replaced by prettier women. Other women say there is something bad about you, but that they love you a lot anyway, and then hope word of this does not get back to you.

 

[global]

CCS says it like it is.

 

[DammitLetMeIn]

Some of CCS' posts look like an incoherent stream of thoughts.

lmao. Agreed. Its like his brain is online wired up to HairLossTalk.com. He's got a 'submit post' button in his earhole

 

[socks]

My experience with Match.com is that the women usually fall into one of the following categories:

- The good looking girls that get bombarded by a lot of attention from the large male memberbase.

- The career junkie who basically works 24/7, has no time to go out, and is basically 'shopping' for a guy online.

- Gold diggers looking for Mr. Tall, Dark, Handsome, and Rich

- Chicks with one or more kids

- Chick who dont have an actual membership


Now I have meet some fun and attractive women from Match.com but it takes a lot of work... Way more work then if I just go out and meet a girl the regular way.

Besides, if you dont have the social skills to get a date normally, what do you expect is going to happen when you meet? Personally, I think Match.com is a great site for career professionals with tight schedules to network together... The 'fun' girls are there but are far and few inbetween. That being said though I usually create a new account every 2 - 3 months, take advantage of the promotional 2-weeks free trial memberships they offer, and basically hit up every profile I see, send out my email to those interested, and then erase and move on.

 

[CCS]

I think the best site for me is hotornot.com. Little time investment making an account. $18 gets you 3 months where you can contact women and they can contact you first too if you paid. But you have to look at their picture and click yes or no. If you click yes, they will be sent an email and shown your picture. Every month is the same price, but if you buy a lot at once, you get priority over other guys and get shown to her at the front of the list, which is why the 3 months is better than the $6 one month. If she clicks yes to you, then either of you can contact each other, and she is added to your double match list. Very little search features other than key word, location, and age. Every time you click yes or no, it is recorded and you get sent to another picture to click yes or no to, forever. You have to be active in the last 2 weeks to be shown to people. There are a lot of people on there. 300 women in my small city, and a lot more than that in the big city near mine. Probably more guys too, but most don't pay.

 

[CCS]

Anyway, my out of shape friends, who get women now and then, told me that I should not bother going to the gym except to build confidence, and that getting ripped will not turn women on. As an example, he cited a ripped guy in his class who does not talk to any of the women, and is not dating any of them. I agree I need to get out there and approach them, but these guys are dumb for telling me not to go the the gym. They told me not to go at all shortly after I told them it gave me confidence but not enough to totally approach anyone.

Whatever. I almost hit on a woman today, especially after she was friendly when I talked to her for a second. And when I get my abs cut and get 5 more pounds of muscle on my upper body, I'll have to put out effort not look too confident.

 

[hair today gone tomorrow]

Anyway, my out of shape friends, who get women now and then, told me that I should not bother going to the gym except to build confidence, and that getting ripped will not turn women on. As an example, he cited a ripped guy in his class who does not talk to any of the women, and is not dating any of them. I agree I need to get out there and approach them, but these guys are dumb for telling me not to go the the gym. They told me not to go at all shortly after I told them it gave me confidence but not enough to totally approach anyone.

Whatever. I almost hit on a woman today, especially after she was friendly when I talked to her for a second. And when I get my abs cut and get 5 more pounds of muscle on my upper body, I'll have to put out effort not look too confident.

wow, dude.