IN SICKNESS AND IN HEALTH

[thesaint1982]

IM 23 YEARS OLD AND I MET MY HUSBAND ON SEPT 1ST 2003 IT WAS LOVE AT FIRST SITE...I KNOW IT SOUNDS CORNY BUT HE MOVED IN THEY DAY I MET HIM AN HE PROPOSED 5 WKS LATER I KNOW IT WAS FAST BUT WE DIDNT WANT TO WASTE TIME AS WE BOTH NEW THAT HE WAS ILL BUT HE NEEDED A MAJOR OPERATION TO MEND HIS HEART , 3 WEEKS B4 THE OP THE DOCS GAVE MY HUBBY A WATER TABLET BUT HIS HEART REACTED AND HE WENT INTO HEART FAILURE ..... WE HAD ONLY BEEN MARRIED A FEW MONTHSSO AS U CAN IMAGINE I WAS DISTRAUGHT. THE DOCS TOLD US THAT HIS HEART WAS IN OPERABLE ANDHE WOULD NEED A HEART AND LONG TRANSPLANT IN ORDER TO SURVIVE, THEY SAID THAT HE WOULD BE ON THE LIST ONLY A SHORT TIME AND THAT WAS 6 MONTHS AGO AND WE ARE STILL WAITING............THE STRAIN HAS BEEN IMMENSE BUT OUR LOVE IS STRONGER THAN EVER THE LAST FEW WEEKS MY HAIR HAS BEEN FALLING OUT IN CLUMPS BUT MY GP SEEMS UNINTERESTED AND JUST SAYS THAT MY HAIR WILL GROW BACK WHEN MY STRESS IS OVER BUT THATS NO HELP TO ME....I HAVE TO COVER MY HEAD ON BANDANAS OR HATS AND THATS IF I FEEL LIKE GOING OUT AT ALL THIS IS ALL QUITE NEW TO ME AND IMNOT SURE OF THINGS TO TRY FIRST THE DOCTOR SAID IT WAS ALOPECIA AND THEN CHANGED HIS MIND AND SAID IT COULD BE TELOGEN EFFLUVIUM BUT OFFERED NO ADVICE OR SUPPORT EXCEPT FOR ....TO RELAX..... IM SURE THERES MORE TO THIS. ANY HELP WOULD BE APPRECIATED

 

[Guest]

I would not worry too much about your loss. If you have never suffered with hairloss in the past then you can put it down to stress. It will grow back if this is the case.