How Do You Accept Living A Lesser Life?

[PappinAce]

there comes a point where i stop caring about myself. human desires are a pointless pursuit because i'm no longer equipped to attain them. i'm a hideous monster with a head of fried straw. nobody is going to choose a beast like me when the applicant pool is filled with attractive normal men with healthy genes.

it's upsetting to know that i'll never have a partner or experience human touch again. it's instinctual for humans to want that. what can possibly keep you going when you have hair loss in your 20s, and knowing you have another 50-60 years of being alone? do you just have to dedicate yourself to other people's happiness and try to make the external world a better place? is it possible to let go of a desire that's never been satisfied? human contact is not like water and oxygen...

 

[Stanx22]

there comes a point where i stop caring about myself. human desires are a pointless pursuit because i'm no longer equipped to attain them. i'm a hideous monster with a head of fried straw. nobody is going to choose a beast like me when the applicant pool is filled with attractive normal men with healthy genes.

it's upsetting to know that i'll never have a partner or experience human touch again. it's instinctual for humans to want that. what can possibly keep you going when you have hair loss in your 20s, and knowing you have another 50-60 years of being alone? do you just have to dedicate yourself to other people's happiness and try to make the external world a better place? is it possible to let go of a desire that's never been satisfied? human contact is not like water and oxygen...

I cope with marijuana.

 

[PappinAce]

I cope by working a lot, playing videogames and other hobbies. Hair loss condemned me to live as a recluse to avoid constant shaming.

hair loss certainly plays a role in shaping your life. doesn't necessarily ruin it, but it takes away the possibility of meaningful companionship.

can you still enjoy the beauty of video games and piano, in spite of everything? does the work serve as a successful distraction?

 

[Dante92]

hair loss certainly plays a role in shaping your life. doesn't necessarily ruin it, but it takes away the possibility of meaningful companionship.

can you still enjoy the beauty of video games and piano, in spite of everything? does the work serve as a successful distraction?

I don't enjoy them as I used to, they mostly serve as distractions.

 

[kj6723]

If drugs and transplants can't save your hair and you can't pull off the bald beast, then it's time to shift focus to building your bank account....3rd world game is your best bet for attractive female companionship

 

[Stanx22]

If drugs and transplants can't save your hair and you can't pull off the bald beast, then it's time to shift focus to building your bank account....3rd world game is your best bet for attractive female companionship

Or just give up on women and keep living in the 1st world and enjoy it's privileges with the bank account.

 

[kj6723]

Or just give up on women and keep living in the 1st world and enjoy it's privileges with the bank account.

You live in the 3rd world, right? How are your opportunities for economic/status advancement in your situation?

1st world guys could focus on becoming moderately rich and continue to live in the 1st world. There are always hookers and gold diggers, but if they want a quality marriage, I think 3rd world chicks is the best shot. Will be more likely to hold value in her eyes, and thus have a quality relationship than with 1st world gold digger chick

 

[davesmith420]

Lift weights and drink myself to sleep

 

[PappinAce]

You live in the 3rd world, right? How are your opportunities for economic/status advancement in your situation?

1st world guys could focus on becoming moderately rich and continue to live in the 1st world. There are always hookers and gold diggers, but if they want a quality marriage, I think 3rd world chicks is the best shot. Will be more likely to hold value in her eyes, and thus have a quality relationship than with 1st world gold digger chick

so i have to move to some poor area in india or thailand to find companionship? what if my career path doesn't take me there?

 

[Raphael13]

LOL! Just LOL!

I don't mean to laugh at someone elses misery. But if you seriously think your life is OVER because you lost HAIR (which almost all men do) you have deeper issues my friend.

 

[Stanx22]

You live in the 3rd world, right? How are your opportunities for economic/status advancement in your situation?

1st world guys could focus on becoming moderately rich and continue to live in the 1st world. There are always hookers and gold diggers, but if they want a quality marriage, I think 3rd world chicks is the best shot. Will be more likely to hold value in her eyes, and thus have a quality relationship than with 1st world gold digger chick

You need to work very hard here if you want to be something big. You need 3 things. 1- Graduate university .. 2- Have connections to help you get a job .. 3 - Be lucky. But you're right, men have it way easier here.

 

[tomcat]

LOL! Just LOL!

I don't mean to laugh at someone elses misery. But if you seriously think your life is OVER because you lost HAIR (which almost all men do) you have deeper issues my friend.

i bet ur nw1

 

[kj6723]

so i have to move to some poor area in india or thailand to find companionship? what if my career path doesn't take me there?

You would have to redirect your career path to something that could take you there, or save up a f*** ton of money and retire there early. Other option would be to get a woman from the 3rd world and bring her here....is risky though that she might leave you once she has her green card

 

[Raphael13]

i bet ur nw1

Somewhere between 1-2 with a corner at left starting to thin. So no i am not one of the lucky bastards.

 

[Raphael13]

You can watch my thread so see

 

[Xander94]

What a surprise. Try being ugly and Norwood 4 at age 25 and see if you don't end up living like a recluse.

these kind of threads are your speciality

 

[hollow11]

You need to work very hard here if you want to be something big. You need 3 things. 1- Graduate university .. 2- Have connections to help you get a job .. 3 - Be lucky. But you're right, men have it way easier here.

You need all of the above to succeed in any country.
Actually, you don't need to graduate uni, especially in a "third world country" as its probably a trash uni anyway, all you need is knowledge which you'll mostly get from learning by yourself (unless you're in a university from the worlds top 50, don't even hope to get quality education that's worth it). Oh and by the way, didn't you mention that you're living in Egypt? I'm not sure how "third world" Egypt is. I mean, it's not Western Europe or USA but still, i'd call it developing at least.