I agree you have to have that sort of attitude because at the end of the day we are doing this for ourselves no-one else. And lets face it in the whole scheme of things, the universe in general wearing hair is so completely insignificant that its simply not worth worrying over. I feel and look worse without a piece i feel and look much better with it...that's all it is.If you wear a hairpiece, you should wear it w/ utter confidence I think.
Otherwise, you'll just be too fussy & too pussy.
I don't know why but I have no shame in wearing a toupee.