'confessing' Hairloss Strategy Before Date?
- Thread starter KyleTroy
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She didn't see you were bald in your photos?
Or are you an early norwooder running cover up game? If that's the case then f*** no. Shouldn't ever be mentioning your hairloss to chicks if you're below NW4
Early norwooding basics: treat your hairloss with the big 3 and keep it a secret from all romanic interests
Let her find out on her own when your living together, and applying minoxidil before bed
Or are you an early norwooder running cover up game? If that's the case then f*** no. Shouldn't ever be mentioning your hairloss to chicks if you're below NW4
Early norwooding basics: treat your hairloss with the big 3 and keep it a secret from all romanic interests
Let her find out on her own when your living together, and applying minoxidil before bed
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Make sure you give her your HairLossTalk.com username as well, so she can read up on all the details
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I would say better to just have profile pics that show it to some extent. I know that's hard, but not as hard as explaining it, or having her find out on a first or second date.
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Careful combover on profile pic
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Yes
Show SOME hairloss
And then mention it casually before the date
My strategy anyway
If you can pull off the combover IRL do that. Honestly just don’t say anything. Never had a women bring it up during a date. I think it would be rude to do so.
Take pics that show slight male pattern baldness for next time if you are worried but I don’t think you should bring it up because it shows you are insecure.
Take pics that show slight male pattern baldness for next time if you are worried but I don’t think you should bring it up because it shows you are insecure.
I don’t know how you could casually bring up having HairLoss without sounding insecure. Insecurity is going to be a bigger turn off than hair loss
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This is true, you can not tell her,she will notice it anyway.
Telling her you have hair loss is not an option,it will just make things worse as it will be obvisous that you feel bad about it and this is not what you want!
@KyleTroy Out of curiosity, have any women brought up you being bald on a date?
Generally I find women are socially conditioned to be nice even if that means being dishonest. So long as your not a jackass I find it hard to get an honest answer about why dates didn’t work out.
Personally I wouldn’t mind if a women brought up me being bald or any other physical characteristics as problems on our date. Save me the trouble of asking her out again. And wouldn’t wonder why things didn’t work out. Never had this happen though.
Generally I find women are socially conditioned to be nice even if that means being dishonest. So long as your not a jackass I find it hard to get an honest answer about why dates didn’t work out.
Personally I wouldn’t mind if a women brought up me being bald or any other physical characteristics as problems on our date. Save me the trouble of asking her out again. And wouldn’t wonder why things didn’t work out. Never had this happen though.
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Not ON the date
But their eyes wander
And,,,,,I've had them ridicule me later on social media
Which is a serious mistake lol
I then have to ""''''out them
How
How old are you? In one of your other posts you said you were 50. I’m about to be 24 and I can’t even imagine women in my age range doing that on social media let alone a 30+ year old women. Ridiculing a guy on social media for being bald is like a women saying she is shallow and petty. I’ve mentioned this before but women are socially conditioned to be nice even at the expense of honesty. What you are discribibing does not seem plausible. Most guys have some hair loss past 35 anyway. What you are saying is some HIghSchool bullshit.
Are you just some guy trolling? Unless you are 16 both your actions and the responses you claim to get from women seem absurd. More likely you are a guy who just gets off on people talking about how miserable they are or making them think that they are worse off then they are.
Fyi it does not show confidence and there is no way to causally bring up having hairloss without sounding insecure.
If you are a Norwood 6 and wearing a wig or photoshopped hair to look like a Norwood 1 then there might be some grounds for that women’s reaction as I would equate that to lieing about your appearance. How would you feel if the women showed up and was 100 pounds heavier then her picture?
Yes, balding matters I’m dating life but not to the extent you are making it out to be.
How old are you? In one of your other posts you said you were 50. I’m about to be 24 and I can’t even imagine women in my age range doing that on social media let alone a 30+ year old women. Ridiculing a guy on social media for being bald is like a women saying she is shallow and petty. I’ve mentioned this before but women are socially conditioned to be nice even at the expense of honesty. What you are discribibing does not seem plausible. Most guys have some hair loss past 35 anyway. What you are saying is some HIghSchool bullshit.
Are you just some guy trolling? Unless you are 16 both your actions and the responses you claim to get from women seem absurd. More likely you are a guy who just gets off on people talking about how miserable they are or making them think that they are worse off then they are.
Fyi it does not show confidence and there is no way to causally bring up having hairloss without sounding insecure.
If you are a Norwood 6 and wearing a wig or photoshopped hair to look like a Norwood 1 then there might be some grounds for that women’s reaction as I would equate that to lieing about your appearance. How would you feel if the women showed up and was 100 pounds heavier then her picture?
Yes, balding matters I’m dating life but not to the extent you are making it out to be.