I already know how to talk to girls. That's not the point. if you are a fat short balding man, it doesn't matter how much you "try", you will get rejected every time. The only way to overcome it is to get good "game" but even that will be a small ray of hope- you're still getting rejected way more than good looking guys.
Your appearance matters, especially now more than ever. Your "punching too much above your weight" comment is telling, but even that is wrong. Women always want men more attractive then them. You can't even punch AT your weight nowadays and expect a good rate of success. You must be seen as ABOVE AVERAGE even to average women.
I mean ****, if you wanted to get sex you could just pay for it. That's not my point. My point is not having hair or being balding is a handicap, a subtraction for how people see you and the self-esteem feedback loop about how you view yourself.
Also there simply is not "someone for everyone". It's a complete lie. People don't die alone from "self-pity" they die alone because nobody wanted them. They usually believed in the "someone for everyone" lie for years and never improved themselves and thought someone would "love them for them".
I'm going to pick apart your post like a vulture picks apart the corpse of a chicken.
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f you are a fat short balding man, you will get rejected every time."
—Being bald is not a choice, but being fat is, so change it.
"You're still getting rejected way more than good looking guys."
—And Manchester United win way more matches than Barnsley but Barnsley still win every once in a while.
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Your punching too much above your weight comment is wrong. Women always want men more attractive then them. You must be seen as ABOVE AVERAGE even to average women"
—Girls may only want to get with guys who are better looking than them, just as guys do, but that's not always what they get. If you think girls only ever get with guys who are better looking than them go out and look around and you'll be surprised at what you see. Some girls find guys attractive who other girls don't find attractive. And I believe a person's personality plays a big part in their level of physical attractiveness.
"My point is not having hair or being balding is a handicap, a subtraction for how people see you and the self-esteem feedback loop about how you view yourself."
—Being bald or balding might be a handicap but racehorses that run off handicaps still sometimes win if the track conditions are in their favor or if the other unhandicapped horses run badly. And don't let your self esteem rely on how others view you. Love yourself. And if you don't love yourself become a person you would love. When you love yourself everything else falls into place.
"There simply is not "someone for everyone". It's a complete lie."
—Some people believe in Mohammad and others believe in Jesus. The Muslims think the Christians believe in a lie and the Christians think the Muslims believe in a lie. We believe different things.
"People don't die alone from "self-pity" they die alone because nobody wanted them. They usually believed in the "someone for everyone" lie for years and never improved themselves and thought someone would "love them for them".`
—Nobody loved them because they didn't love themselves. If we see a person who doesn't love them self we instinctively think "Well if they don't love them self they must not be worth loving, because if anyone knows if they are worth loving or not it is them." And I wonder if those people who died alone really put themselves out into the world and took chances and gave themselves the best chance of finding someone, or did they recluse themselves because of their lack of self worth.
So, to sum up, as the Chinese proverb says, "Laugh and the world laughs with you. Weep and you weep alone." Love yourself, go out into the world, take chances, because you won't love yourself if you don't take chances.
