A Message To You Guys Before I Leave This Website

man12

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Hey everyone, for the past few months I've been worrying about my hair a lot, I became so insecure and sad all the time, I just couldn't get over thinking of hair, I look at the mirror 100 times a day, I take many pictures of my hairline and crown every day, I look at people hair in the street, I became so obsessed.. even if something make me laugh or I feel happy about something I instantly think of my hair and get sad again... I pass whole day reading on the internet about hair and reading threads here on this forum... I even started imagining things that are not existent...

I feel better now and I finally accepted myself, and I'm back to life and focusing on positive.. I personally think you should do the same even if you are completely bald, why ? because self-acceptance is the key to happiness, because this is just how it is... because most men will go bald eventually at some age.. give a man enough time and they will become bald, seriously guys life is short to worry about hair. I know you might think I'm just talking bullshit and reality is different, but it is the truth. why would you worry about hair and waste time till it all fall instead of profiting of what you already have ? nothing last in this life right ? we all gonna die, we all age, we all change.. I even seen some people posting their norwood 0 hairline and crying at their hair.. I even seen some kids posting their juvenile hairline. it is just crazy... I personally think stressing about hair will cause more hairloss.. yes genetics win over all but yea stress can speed up male pattern baldness...

I stopped worrying about hair because I accepted that sometimes there are things we can't take control of in life.. and you know I talked with many bald guys and heard their stories.. any man can lose hair at some point in his life.. you shouldn't be so insecure about it.. I know someone who had juvenile hairline with very dense and thick hair all his life and then at 25 years old his hair started to thin and he losted almost all of it in one year ? he is 26 now with norwood 4... his brother has norwood 2 since 20 years old and still the same now at 24, if you look at them at age 20 you will say the guy with norwood 2 will def go bald and the other has a perfect hairline and dense hair you will never say he will go bald.. you see what I'm saying ? you never know what happen, accept whatever hairline you have find the best style for it and enjoy life.. no hair ? shave it all build some muscles wear cool hats.. you can be happy if you want!

Cheers!
 

karatekid

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omg, here another that has some enlightenment and want to share his insights with everybody....
when people will realize they cant project themselves on everyone else??

Bro, if you now accept yourself as it is, good for you, keep going this way, but why you think you can suddenly preach to everyone? this is not how it works bro, everyone is different, everyone is in different situation and different conditions in his life. people dont need you to tell them what is best for them.
 

man12

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omg, here another that has some enlightenment and want to share his insights with everybody....
when people will realize they cant project themselves on everyone else??

Bro, if you now accept yourself as it is, good for you, keep going this way, but why you think you can suddenly preach to everyone? this is not how it works bro, everyone is different, everyone is in different situation and different conditions in his life. people dont need you to tell them what is best for them.
Im aware of that and I agree that everyone has diff situation and we cant all feel the same. I just wanted to write that message because i found some really good people here, I was only wishing if someone will read what i wrote and feel better.. I'm not a preacher and I'm not trying to be. Thank you bro
 

tomJ

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Im aware of that and I agree that everyone has diff situation and we cant all feel the same. I just wanted to write that message because i found some really good people here, I was only wishing if someone will read what i wrote and feel better.. I'm not a preacher and I'm not trying to be. Thank you bro
He clearly has good intentions here. I'm personally glad he found happiness. I wish I were as strong as him...so props or kudos to you sir!
 
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