Some would say that the person who continues to flog a dead horse is the deluded one. You can only move on when you let go of old baggage. Women are very perceptive and can sense a guy who lacks confidence in himself. For her, that is a far greater turn-off than his lack of hair, but he cannot...
The point of the topic was to draw focus to the fact that, it's the way we view ourselves that is the cause of our anxiety. The green pill could come in the form of some kind of cognitive therapy that would help to accept what we cannot change.
Let's face it, something has moved our cheese so...
Okay, hypothetical I know but; if you were given the choice of being able to take either a red pill, which would cure or halt your hair loss but that had some negative side effects and needed to be taken for the rest of your life. Or the choice of a green pill, which would cause you to loose all...
It is always possible to bind together a considerable number of people in love, so long as there are other people left over to receive the manifestations of their frustration and aggression. Freud said that, apparently. So perhaps it is a bit of both in that as humans we all have the inborn...
I can see where you're coming from, but it does seem rather self-defeating to hold a set of negative views that apply to yourself. Life is so much more than a hand of cards and there are examples of successful people all around you that are a testament to that fact. These are the people you...
I would say it's a bit of both, social attitudes and your own natural aversion. But then that's hardly surprising since social attitudes are ultimately the collective gut feelings of other people just like you and me. It's just that we are on the wrong side of the fence.
With all due respect, this sounds like something a religious nut or your mom would come out with. The fact is, these days it's all about personal identity and the individual. We want to be the person who makes us feel most confident about ourselves. I applaud your efforts to make us feel better...
Just to say hi to everyone as I am new here. I've been reading some of the posts and have to say it does make you feel better to know that so many of us share the same views.