Recent content by doubleindemnity

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    The coping and delusion has ended for me

    Same here. I went through it for years, believing the nonsense positivity that I read online. Maybe I'm not in good enough shape, I thought. Handled that and nothing changed. Maybe my mindset is wrong, I thought. So I went hard on my affirmations and meditation. Nothing changed. Maybe things...
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    Women like masculine men, not girls like you all

    I sometimes wonder what effect this will have on our countries in 20 years. All of this stuff affects who has children and with whom. That's the next generation being decided by this stuff.
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    Anyone else get sad seeing people post dates on social media and if you don't find anyone by late 20's is it over?

    You are overestimating a man's attractiveness. Do you really think that a bald guy has a chance with a single mom? It doesn't happen. Many guys on here have been rejected by single moms.
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    Women like masculine men, not girls like you all

    The problem with people on here is that they try for years and years with no results and then conclude that unless they look like a Chad they have no chance. Maybe the conclusion is incorrect but they are well justified in not trying.
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    Anyone else get sad seeing people post dates on social media and if you don't find anyone by late 20's is it over?

    He is single because he is bald. He makes these pathetic posts because he is single despite his best efforts. My 2c is that the older one gets, the tougher it is to be single. Standards only go up and sadly so does one's norwood level.
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    Bald = game over dead srs seven words

    But who is there nowadays who has done well in their career while keeping a balance? It seems like at a standard corporate career, you'd want 10-11 work hours per day. The most conducive to that is a boring, predictable social life. 24-11 leaves 13 hours and those hours easily get used up for...
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    Bald = game over dead srs seven words

    I agree with this. And let me tell you that most people I see who have good careers are not fully satisfied with them. The point is that other things, outside of career, is what gives one life satisfaction. You have no access to those things as a bald guy.
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    Women like masculine men, not girls like you all

    This thread has been going for a while and I forgot to ask... what actually is a masculine man and a non masculine one? Do we need to just replace those two terms by "good looking" and "less good looking"?
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    I feel bad for feelsbadman the truest cel

    I think that you mean "if I can do it, then anybody with a comparable level of hair loss can". I don't think that a low norwood can speak for a high norwood and vice versa.
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    Should I delete dating apps? (causing depression)

    Yes you should. Some people here are saying that the numbers are against a hetero guy on a dating app service. Even that is a slight cope in my opinion. There are a few that boast a more even number or have design features to get around this (problem being that a hetero woman sees too many men...
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    Do you need to take finasteride with a transplant or not?

    I really believe that, for myself, that the chances of serious side effects with finasteride are too high. I argued that I have been unlucky in everything else so why wouldn't I be unsuccessful with finasteride too? Changing the hormones is always scary for me. Also, how about the unknown unknowns such as...
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    Do you need to take finasteride with a transplant or not?

    I'm planning to go for a hair transplant without finasteride. In the worst case, it can't be worse than being bald. Anything is better than this.
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    Dating is hard, don’t take it personally...

    This works for a low Norwood but, like I said, for a bald guy, a guy will run out of people to swipe and also mess up his profile 's internal score by using honest photos. There's no way around it except by using fake photos or getting treatment. I hope that you see now that a bald guy' s most...
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    Dating is hard, don’t take it personally...

    Waste of time and money indeed but I still think that it's better than going on no dates at all and so do other hat and cat fishers . The spare time would probably end up being used venting on here anyway. And money... Beyond the essentials I can't think of what a bald guy would save up for...
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    Dating is hard, don’t take it personally...

    In a game theory sense , would it dominate all other strategies? Maybe it would. Is it really better for the fat person who does not want to lean out to use honest photos and get no dates? Better for everybody else maybe but is it better for them? That was my argument. The choice was to use...
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