Ori83
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first a little background (sorry, bare with me in that boring part.. it gets better in the second paragraph) Im a late bloomer with ladies, very very late that is lol (25+ first "real" kiss and lost my virginity)
i never had a problem with that actually, i was very busy with life and that aspect always pushed aside until i've decided i want to do something about it. in the last 2 years all the girls i've been with used to be older then me, in some cases around 35 yo, it was great fun tbh, to be with an experienced girl that dont hold back in bed... i had some in my age range too.. 23-27 nothing serious tho.. only flings that lasted no more then few months.
lately i find myself very attracted to younger girls... like 18-20.. i know it considered "legal" by law, but i think its immoral for a 27 yo guy to date a 18-19 yo girl (in my book)... the gap is too big, i know that finding a younger girl attractive is not weird in that sense, but in my case its more then this... im very curious about dating one... although i keep telling myself not to, i find it hard to depress this deep compulsion, i think its because i've never had a girl when i was in that age range.....
my 20yo brother always comes with girls (friends, his not dating them for some reason, i guess he is too shy) and i think one of his friends is flirting with me .. she is only 18 yo, and we had a fun conversations when she visits him. one time she was here, she asked me about collage and i gladly explained and we exchanged phone numbers - she asked in a claim that she might want to advise me about which collage to go ( :shakehead: ) in the last week she calls frequently to ask about all sort of things and sometime in late hours... i never been in a situation that a girl wants me and i want her but i force myself not to do it... plus it baffles me since she can have any guy she wants (very attractive girl, guys her age would kill to be with her) not only im older but im not that attractive looking, normal guy (i even look older then i really am). im afraid if it wont stop i might do something ill regret later.... i could use some advice here please, if any of you been to this situation? is this normal that i REALLY REALLY want to be with a young girl (ie fulfill the fantasy?)? ill never ask my buddies because i know what their reaction will be ("f*** her" or "your a pedophile")..
thoughts on the subject please.
i never had a problem with that actually, i was very busy with life and that aspect always pushed aside until i've decided i want to do something about it. in the last 2 years all the girls i've been with used to be older then me, in some cases around 35 yo, it was great fun tbh, to be with an experienced girl that dont hold back in bed... i had some in my age range too.. 23-27 nothing serious tho.. only flings that lasted no more then few months.
lately i find myself very attracted to younger girls... like 18-20.. i know it considered "legal" by law, but i think its immoral for a 27 yo guy to date a 18-19 yo girl (in my book)... the gap is too big, i know that finding a younger girl attractive is not weird in that sense, but in my case its more then this... im very curious about dating one... although i keep telling myself not to, i find it hard to depress this deep compulsion, i think its because i've never had a girl when i was in that age range.....
my 20yo brother always comes with girls (friends, his not dating them for some reason, i guess he is too shy) and i think one of his friends is flirting with me .. she is only 18 yo, and we had a fun conversations when she visits him. one time she was here, she asked me about collage and i gladly explained and we exchanged phone numbers - she asked in a claim that she might want to advise me about which collage to go ( :shakehead: ) in the last week she calls frequently to ask about all sort of things and sometime in late hours... i never been in a situation that a girl wants me and i want her but i force myself not to do it... plus it baffles me since she can have any guy she wants (very attractive girl, guys her age would kill to be with her) not only im older but im not that attractive looking, normal guy (i even look older then i really am). im afraid if it wont stop i might do something ill regret later.... i could use some advice here please, if any of you been to this situation? is this normal that i REALLY REALLY want to be with a young girl (ie fulfill the fantasy?)? ill never ask my buddies because i know what their reaction will be ("f*** her" or "your a pedophile")..
thoughts on the subject please.