Would you date a girl with visible hair loss? (early thinning look) I'm mildly interested in a guy who is I guess a NW6 (he shaves so I don't know for sure and I'm not about to get up close and stare). I know you guys think I must only be into this guy because I'm losing my hair too, and for some women that might hold, but I honestly never cared whether a guy has hair (fact is, when I was much younger I noticed that most guys bald sooner or later so lack of hair never factored into anything, and I posted earlier about my pre-hair loss relationship with a young NW7).
I don't know him well...I just want to get to know him better. BUT, I'm afraid he might take one look at me and think "she's losing her hair so that's why she's talking to me" or "she's only into me because we share this awful thing in common" or some other sort of revere psychology and be REALLY turned off. Oh, and he's younger than me too (3 years?), which I don't like and have never done before. Having spent the last 2 years of my life with a guy much older than me who literally had enough hair for five toupees and who bailed when it became obvious my hair loss and other health problems weren't going to magically reverse, I don't think it can get that much worse. But, I've never put the moves on a guy, never had to and wouldn't even know where to begin.
I'm decently well-educated so I don't need a man to support me financially, and I don't want kids unless I find a great husband first and we make the decision together (some people get this part way backwards...)--that is, this isn't a sort of "biological clock ticking" issue, so in a twisted way, hair loss aside I still have some non-spinsterhood choices. So, be honest, I know 99.99% of guys wouldn't even consider it, I just want to know if there are any here who would.
I don't know him well...I just want to get to know him better. BUT, I'm afraid he might take one look at me and think "she's losing her hair so that's why she's talking to me" or "she's only into me because we share this awful thing in common" or some other sort of revere psychology and be REALLY turned off. Oh, and he's younger than me too (3 years?), which I don't like and have never done before. Having spent the last 2 years of my life with a guy much older than me who literally had enough hair for five toupees and who bailed when it became obvious my hair loss and other health problems weren't going to magically reverse, I don't think it can get that much worse. But, I've never put the moves on a guy, never had to and wouldn't even know where to begin.
I'm decently well-educated so I don't need a man to support me financially, and I don't want kids unless I find a great husband first and we make the decision together (some people get this part way backwards...)--that is, this isn't a sort of "biological clock ticking" issue, so in a twisted way, hair loss aside I still have some non-spinsterhood choices. So, be honest, I know 99.99% of guys wouldn't even consider it, I just want to know if there are any here who would.