Discussion in 'Men's General Hair Loss Discussions' started by Calchas, Feb 3, 2018.
you gotta use soap man, you get your wig split
First of all, it's not something that really ever gets verbalized, in my experience. When I shaved a full (almost) head of hair at the age of 31, back in 1995, I was partnered, at the time, to al older, balding person. We never discussed it, but after I shaved mine, he shaved his. I do recall getting lots of attention, being tall, broad, decent looking with a threatening shaved head and dark beard (guys of all ages). As I got older, and I was single, I was dating guys who were bald, shaved and had hair.
Jump to now, as an older guy, I tend to attract younger guys, who love the balding/shaved big-bearded look.
So the answer is, it crosses all generations. The younger, balding gay guys run the gamut from doing nothing (but buzzing short) to shaving. I only met one guy with a hair system (age 24). Older guys, same thing. I need to add that I tend to date within a circle of men who are basically NOT your pretty boy, skinny, club going type of guy. I tend to date in the leather, biker, bear (Google it) communities which tend to NOT put a huge emphasis on head hair. They DO tend to put an emphasis on body hair and facial hair.
This was true of the US, Israel, and a number of places in Europe.
Ha, more than you ever wanted to know!
I am glad to be on this forum, some really cool people.
Soap makes for TERRIBLE lube! Just saying!
ill remember that for future reference
snitches get their wig split bro!
We used to have a younger gay member on here named Karankaran who told us the opposite of what you told us. He said a balding young man has no chance in the gay world. It's all about looks, physique, and hair. Nice to hear a different perspective for a change. He may have been more attracted to the pretty boy, skinny club going type of guy you mentioned. Too bad he is no longer here. It would be nice to see you guys exchange perspectives and debate with each other.
As @BaldBearded said already, that tends to be the audience of the 'twink' club goer, fancy hair type of guys.
I have a gay buddy who's 25 - full head of hair, heavier build, hairy and bear like who has told me on numerous occasions that he has been with guys who were balding, and even bald. When I asked him about this, he didn't really think twice about it. it wasn't the main driving factor, which is ironic because it doesn't coincide with our beliefs around here. He did however say that he is not attracted to twinks, which is why he finds dating older guys that are heavier set to be more ideal. Which also comes with balding, as men are more likely to thin the older they get.
His preference seems to of changed over time, because quite some time ago I dont think he felt the same way when he was 21, and had a twink body.
Different then women!
you know alot of details about your "buddy" shook... anything you wanna say brah?
When you have a gay buddy you have known for over 15 years, you tend to become comfortable around others. In return a good listener!
Have to contribute this thread, for some reason.
Here's what I look now:
Is this fuckin c*** serious?
Keep telling yourself that bud.