you will never be that "cute attractive guy" that gets attention without trying, you're just not attractive enough and that's not going to changeAm I an ugly dude coping hard as f***?
you're 23 years old, there is no puberty to go through. you are what you are. people get worse looking over time as they age, not better.
sorry to break it you bud
your options are hairpiece or accept what you are and make due with the level that you're at
but yes you are coping hard as f***
and let me also let you in on a little secret: unless you are male model or movie star good looking, nobody on this planet gets attention like what you want without having to try
you basically want to be celebrated for simply existing
it's sad and pathetic