So I Went On A Date With A Girl Last Weekend...

blackg

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Yes, yes, and yes.

Being aesthetically challenged is not my own fault.
And neither is being heavily overweight.
Metabolism and psychological conditions play a major role in weight gain

Noone looks in the mirror and says, "Yep, I wanna be obese."
 

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Yes I am balding by choice because I eat a lot of candy, bread and hamburgers. And do not make any exercises.

Please do not mock me!
 

blackg

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People just like to mock fat people - I think that is what we are seeing on this forum.

Its funny how the bullied and down trodden can end up becoming bullies themselves.
True mate. Yet the irony is lost on these fools.
 

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Didn't you read my post?

If my money is used to pay for these fat fucks' gastric bypasses, it is my own f*****g business!

That's how it works in Belgium and most of Europe anyway. I know Americans don't pay much taxes.
Well Fred, I'm sure you yourself have benefited in countless ways from being born in high tax, socialist Belgium.
 
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Belgium isn't socialist. I think they could only be considered so from an American perspective (that's not a dig on America - its just that its quite a right wing country in terms of economics).
 

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She has no inclination of your hairloss. Most people think Norwood 2 isnt balding. Balding to a typical person is nw3+ or advanced diffuse thinning. im a nw2 with some minor frontal thinning, and I get compliments on my hair almost daily....... i'm just like "if you only knew"

in fact my last girlfriend just remembered said "youll probably never go bald" after playing with my thinning hairline. A passable amount of hair can go along way.

Amen, brother. I'm NW2 and even 2.5 and haven't heard one person say anything except you have nice thick hair. lmao.. sometimes I think as guys we are too visual for our own good. Unless you are visibly thin on the crown it appears most people assume sides going back are nothing more than 'natural' aging or whatever.
 

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Myth


when I had a NW2 at 16, I had older people pointing it out to me all the time.

I took so many jabs, I never healed. I wore a hat religiously

The days of me jelling my hair stopped.


people don't comment on it, because it's a sensitive subject. They know you are balding, and you aint fooling anyone.

At NW2, your aesthetics won't realy take much of a hit...


OP suffers from extreme low self-esteem, I can tell by his posting patterns. His obsession with missing little hairs at his temple.
 

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How this butterloaf with ton of make up and nose surgery (allegedly) can be attractive?

Crazy generation. f*****g bodypositive/feminists/fat-acceptance movements mess up guys healthy preferences in women.

That is how you want your daughter to look like? Objectevely speaking this she is unacceptable obese.

Firstly it was shookwun with brick-faced big assed woman now this 200kg monster. Not a big surprise you "still have success" with a woman. Since competition for these creatures is not even comparable for a slim/average woman with pretty faces.


I actually consider that morbidly obese it's completely unhealthy.
 

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I'm sticking with my guns and saying Rebel is attractive.

As for media being in favour if fat people: Give me a break!

And I have no reason to say this because I'm in good shape, but come on!

How many fat people do you see in films who are not a comedy figure?

Nearly 50% of America is fat and yet you never see that in any film.

I think we white wash fat people out of the media or mock them - and by doing so it makes it seem more odd when someone says they think a person like rebel Wilson is attractive.

I not fat shaming at all i am not into that.

BUT YES media is turning to becoming more and more accepting of Big Is Beautiful bull sh*t

Big is unhealthy.

Im not talking voluptuous or a size 12 or even a size 14 girls.

These girls or women who are like Rebel Wilson, Gabby (Precious can't think of her name), Melissa McCarthy There is more i dont know there names---they are morbidly obese...I would say Ashley Graham is obese probably...

Even the fact that people think women who are MORBIDLy obese are just obese is showing that the line of what is considered fat is moving.

Fat is unhealthy take looks out of it for now thats personal preference and i dont care about that.

Its not a good message..

If a girl is 15 years old and struggling with 20 pounds and she's a size 12 Which for 15 is big--and she's feeling down about herself..and then she has these role models who are being adored and accepted and called beautiful or brave etc and they are a size 16--whats that 15 year old going to do? Get in shape and cut out the sweets or the emotional eating? OR is she going to say f*** it i can be big and beautiful too and put on an additional 50 pounds.

I can tell you 20 or 30 years ago we did not have "Plus size' Fashion shows. We did not always have immatiated girls either..
The age of the "super mode" With Cincy Crawford, Linda Evangelista, Claudia Schiffer, Elle McPherson etc--they were all healthy fit looking women..CIndy Crawford was a size 8. At that time average American women were size 8...Now? Average American women are size 14!!!

Its not goo its unhealthy---even if a girl who is 25 Like Ashley Graham who can look attractive sexy beautiful at a size 14---What size is she going to be in her 40s and 50s?

It not healthy.

Yo may f*** a few obese women because you find them attractive but you would be foolish to marry and have children because they are going to be unhealthy.

Can a woman turn it around? of course.

And dont even get me started with obese men because they have been on TV and in commercials for decades.


There is a HUGE difference between fat shaming and wanting the American People to wake up and be healthy.

The movie Wall-E i watched it once with my baby nephew and i was shocked how spot on it was where we are headed.
 

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if they dont mind a good chance of dying earlier, having a lot less energy, reduced mobility, being significantly uglier, much higher chances of other diseases like arthritis and diabetes, among other issues

@Wolf Pack edumucate us on obesity Doctor.

however i'm in disagreement with fred on mocking them, although admittedly i've done it a lot out of spite and anger. it just annoys me so much that theyre in control of their issue yet dont do anything about it. its also objectively disgusting and they smell terrible

rebel is nasty and ugly overall, which is a shame as her face is attractive. tastes are partially relative but you have got to be kidding me if you think she would be considered hot. her face maybe but she is way too fat. and in the wrong places. her fat isn't on her hips.

I agree its not that any extra fat is alway unattractive its that if it starts to warp the shape thats where its a problem
she has fat on her arms that bulges out..this is not the same as a woman who has an extra 20 pounds lets say and its mostly on her *** and lower stomach or hips...once it starts to change the basic shape its not longer feminine. and same for men..
 

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Some people do indeed have hormone issues BUT its a very very tiny percentage of people

AND most people with hormone issue (such as PCOS for example which fucks womens hair and their bodies often)

Its not impossible for them to lose weight its just really really difficult

They have to eat a very restricted low glycemic diet and eat less calories then most pool

And they need proper medication.

If thyroid is a problem same thing

BUT anyone with or without hormone issue can lose weight if you manipulate your diet to be non sugar non grain and a lean healthier variant of Paleo

Diabetics can go off medication at times from a lean paleo diet.

I would do all that before gastric by pass surgery---its insane that these people will do a surgery instead of changing their eating habits.
 

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Balance and self control are our allies not our nemesis'.
A morbidly obese unhinged 'carbo- binging' individual succumbing to related health complications is not the end of the world,
nor is the emesis inventive toothpick fairy princess who's post E.R. epiphany finds her a few months out, pushing a size 10 up and down the local grocery's pastry aisle.
 

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Balance and self control are our allies not our nemesis'.
A morbidly obese unhinged 'carbo- binging' individual succumbing to related health complications is not the end of the world,
nor is the emesis inventive toothpick fairy princess who's post E.R. epiphany finds her a few months out, pushing a size 10 up and down the local grocery's pastry aisle.

Size 10, 12 even 14 can be healthy and can still look good--i dont think for most teens or 20 somethings thats kind of unhealthy sign of where its going.

Im in USA and we have an obesity epidemic. its no joke..kids are obese at 7 years old..Its very sad.
 

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Embracing the big is beautiful is just as bad as embracing anorexics or bulimics.
 

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And I thought it went really well. She was extremely flirty with me the whole time, she was basically laughing the whole time, and her and I even made out towards the end of the date. However when I went to drop her off she starting to play with my hair because "I needed a new hair style" (you can look at my post history to look at my hair but I basically wear a Ben Gibbard style comb over to hide my thinning Norwood 1-1.5ish temples, I was basically shitting my pants at this point). She was playing around with my hair for a good 10 mins, messing up my comb over and revealing my thinning/slick temple points. She made my hair look stupid and said "You should hair like this" then proceeded to say "I had fun tonight I want to see you again!" I texted her a few days later about going on another date and she gave me a really bullshit response that she couldn't because she is busy. I'm guessing she saw my future in the Norwood Cemetery?
The woman that wants to go out with you again will never says she's busy without offering another time to go out. Sorry but this one's history
 

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Fun update;

The girl texted me today asking what I was doing tonight. So I'm guessing she broke up with her ex again (for those who didn't see my update a few pages back I learned from word of mouth that she got back with her ex). I'm not responding and avoiding her like the plague she seems like a complete mess.
 
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Fun update;

The girl texted me today asking what I was doing tonight. So I'm guessing she broke up with her ex again (for those who didn't see my update a few pages back I learned from word of mouth that she got back with her ex). I'm not responding and avoiding her like the plague she seems like a complete mess.
Smart move. Avoid those bipolar head cases, they will make your life an emotional havoc.

In my boot camps I commonly teach men about demonstrating higher value. I went over this with Dante92, he frequently attends my twitch streams, and has 1 on 1 skype session package, which includes the ability to see me POV with other women, and shows raw in game footage of me putting in work.

Just avoid, and see it if she follows up again. If she does, Hit and quit.

Find yourself another piece with your emo-scene-esque hair. Don't forget to flick your bangs to the side while spitting tight game.
 

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Smart move. Avoid those bipolar head cases, they will make your life an emotional havoc.

In my boot camps I commonly teach men about demonstrating higher value. I went over this with Dante92, he frequently attends my twitch streams, and has 1 on 1 skype session package, which includes the ability to see me POV with other women, and shows raw in game footage of me putting in work.

Just avoid, and see it if she follows up again. If she does, Hit and quit.

Find yourself another piece with your emo-scene-esque hair. Don't forget to flick your bangs to the side while spitting tight game.

Lol thank you for the kind words Shook. I know you're good with hair styles, is there a style you would recommend on me? I feel like a fringe is needed as my chin is a little narrow for my face, and wearing my hair up would make me look like an alien. I got my hair trimmed up yesterday and it basically looks like a shorter version of the picture I posted.

Edit: Better off here is a picture of me right now
 
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