Hatprisoner, you've really got to change your ways. You're a bald man but you're one of millions, it happens to grown men.
I was a NW6 too, shaved it and absolutley detested the look but you've got to realise that you have no choice in this.
What are you going to do? :dunno:
Go into any big workplace and you'll see bald guys, yes they may be a small minority but they're still there doing the same thing as everyone else.
You will also see short arsed people, very fat people, very ugly people all of them may have issues but this is the workplace its not a singles bar or a beauty pagent.
What are you afraid of? People will look at you see you're bald and thats it. Its not like they have'nt seen a bald man before.
When you get served at the supermarket, when you get on a bus does it matter to you how the cashier or busdriver look? Does it matter if the postman delivering your mail has a nw1 or a nw7? Its only an issue if you make it one.
Yes it may be uncomfortable at first interviews, meeting new people ect but you've got to keep that hidden. There are plenty of bald guys out there who still have confidence, maybe they've just got used to it but you've got to imagine that you are one of them.
At the end of the day people are there to work and earn money they dont really care who's there with them.
Basicly you have to do this, you have to move forward. You cant stay in your current situation. You say you have a girlfriend well thats more than many people on here have. Although I cant understand what she gets out of this relationship. You owe it to her aswell as yourself to get your life back on track.
Just go to an employment agency and they'll find you a job no hassle. Probably just some factory or manual work but at least you'll be earning, there is no future in being on the dole.
Whatever happens it cant be worse than what you've got now can it?
If people have never seen you with hair then they have nothing to compare your look with.
Sitting at hope fretting about it is doing you no good, its just making things worse.
You have to say to yourself ok this is me, its not how I'd like to be but its what I've got. Get out there and get yourself a job, start earning some money and getting a sense of self worth.