person_123
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so i'm 19, noticed thinning at 16. nothing drastic yet, probably making it out to be worse than it really is, but i can't help it.
went through a phase where i said "f*** it.... who cares" that lasted a few months, on and off.
now i'm at the stage where i always look at myself in the mirror and look right at my hair, always trying to find scalp in between my hairs. i have no idea why i do this, but i do it. it makes me feel worse every single time i find scalp, but i do it.
i've started taking pictures with my digital camera of the top of my head, sometimes using light/flash, sometimes not. whenever i see scalp. again, upset. but i do it anyway.
when my hair is wet, it looks horrible, so i try to stay out of the rain.
hair loss has affected my life in a big way. i'm depressed, even contemplated suicide (contemplated, not attempted). i've become withdrawn from society, i don't go places i'm supposed to go because i don't want to be seen in public.
everybody i've asked (dared to talk to about this), says it's all in my head, that i'm not really thinning, but i've noticed the difference between now and when i was young, so i know it's not in my head.
i've tried advanced hair studios, but it hasn't helped much if at all, and i've gotten more depressed from reading on these forums that it wont help.
i want to start propecia, but worried about side effects, and also worried about whether it will help.
i really want HM to be out already, and i want it to be a legitimate, 100% natural looking, lasting cure. it's pretty much all i look forward to in life.
around girls, i just don't feel confident. even if i could date one, i probably would ruin it by being too self concious. whenever anybody says anything i can't really hear, or laughs, i always think it's about me and my thinning hair, though it most probably isn't.
i don't want to study, i don't want to go out alot of the time. i just want to find an island and live there all by myself until hm comes out and solves all my problems.
this forum has really helped though. it's given me a place to vent, a place to feel "not alone".
back to my rant though:
sometimes, when i'm sitting at my desk, i tend to run my fingers through my hair. though i feel no areas of significant thinning, i still feel area's that are less dense.... i think.
sometimes i'll ruffle my hair around to see how many fall out, and when i see any, i keep ruffling till i don't see any more. but if i see any at all, again with the depression.
it seems i'm doing everything in my power to make myself feel horrible, but i can't help it. i just want it all to stop and end, i want dht to be eliminated from my system totally. i want hair to splurt from my scalp so fast and thick that it will bleed my scalp, i dont' care about the pain, so long as i have a thick full head of hair.
i want to find a group of people my age, who are going through what i am going through, and i want girls to want them, i want them to feel confident and show me the way, i want to be accepted as "normal".
i know i'm probably taking it too far, but i seriously can't help it.
there has been one comment on my hair throughout the whole of my life, and that was only when i was under direct light with a new "thinned out" haircut with product in my hair. but it was still commented upon, and i think that's what started my paranoia (though my paranoia is justified, because i definately notice thinning).
if i had a small head, which would look good shaved (wentworth miller is a good example) i wouldn't care so much. if i was like vin diesel, i woudln't care so much. but the fact is i'm not. i don't believe my head was built to be bald. i want hair, i want to style it, i want it to look cool.
whenever i get a haircut now, i get depressed because it always looks thin afterwards. whenever i take a shower now, and notice the hairs in my hand after shampooing, i just want to scream.
i'll rant more after some replies... i know it's horrible to say, but i'd feel better knowing other people are going through the same thing. not because i want to know people are sad, but because i want to know i'm not alone in my ordeal, that life isn't cruel JUST to me...
went through a phase where i said "f*** it.... who cares" that lasted a few months, on and off.
now i'm at the stage where i always look at myself in the mirror and look right at my hair, always trying to find scalp in between my hairs. i have no idea why i do this, but i do it. it makes me feel worse every single time i find scalp, but i do it.
i've started taking pictures with my digital camera of the top of my head, sometimes using light/flash, sometimes not. whenever i see scalp. again, upset. but i do it anyway.
when my hair is wet, it looks horrible, so i try to stay out of the rain.
hair loss has affected my life in a big way. i'm depressed, even contemplated suicide (contemplated, not attempted). i've become withdrawn from society, i don't go places i'm supposed to go because i don't want to be seen in public.
everybody i've asked (dared to talk to about this), says it's all in my head, that i'm not really thinning, but i've noticed the difference between now and when i was young, so i know it's not in my head.
i've tried advanced hair studios, but it hasn't helped much if at all, and i've gotten more depressed from reading on these forums that it wont help.
i want to start propecia, but worried about side effects, and also worried about whether it will help.
i really want HM to be out already, and i want it to be a legitimate, 100% natural looking, lasting cure. it's pretty much all i look forward to in life.
around girls, i just don't feel confident. even if i could date one, i probably would ruin it by being too self concious. whenever anybody says anything i can't really hear, or laughs, i always think it's about me and my thinning hair, though it most probably isn't.
i don't want to study, i don't want to go out alot of the time. i just want to find an island and live there all by myself until hm comes out and solves all my problems.
this forum has really helped though. it's given me a place to vent, a place to feel "not alone".
back to my rant though:
sometimes, when i'm sitting at my desk, i tend to run my fingers through my hair. though i feel no areas of significant thinning, i still feel area's that are less dense.... i think.
sometimes i'll ruffle my hair around to see how many fall out, and when i see any, i keep ruffling till i don't see any more. but if i see any at all, again with the depression.
it seems i'm doing everything in my power to make myself feel horrible, but i can't help it. i just want it all to stop and end, i want dht to be eliminated from my system totally. i want hair to splurt from my scalp so fast and thick that it will bleed my scalp, i dont' care about the pain, so long as i have a thick full head of hair.
i want to find a group of people my age, who are going through what i am going through, and i want girls to want them, i want them to feel confident and show me the way, i want to be accepted as "normal".
i know i'm probably taking it too far, but i seriously can't help it.
there has been one comment on my hair throughout the whole of my life, and that was only when i was under direct light with a new "thinned out" haircut with product in my hair. but it was still commented upon, and i think that's what started my paranoia (though my paranoia is justified, because i definately notice thinning).
if i had a small head, which would look good shaved (wentworth miller is a good example) i wouldn't care so much. if i was like vin diesel, i woudln't care so much. but the fact is i'm not. i don't believe my head was built to be bald. i want hair, i want to style it, i want it to look cool.
whenever i get a haircut now, i get depressed because it always looks thin afterwards. whenever i take a shower now, and notice the hairs in my hand after shampooing, i just want to scream.
i'll rant more after some replies... i know it's horrible to say, but i'd feel better knowing other people are going through the same thing. not because i want to know people are sad, but because i want to know i'm not alone in my ordeal, that life isn't cruel JUST to me...