I've never been hit on by a woman in my life where they ask me out. I have had women flirt with me - its sometimes hard for me to tell if they are flirting or being friendly - and if they are flirting if they want to date or if they do it for fun. I've always had decent responses when I asked people out though - I think I've probably asked out about 15 people in person and I think 9 said yes (most people I met were from online dating). Some of those rejection were harsh though. I've always figured that because women don't hit on me but are cool when I try with them that it means I'm not some chad but I am at least relatively decent looking.