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Discussion in 'The Impact of Hair Loss' started by Feelsbadman, Jun 4, 2019.

  1. Feelsbadman

    Feelsbadman Established Member

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    Guys i'm broken.

    I made a huge mistake. I haven't had much experience with girls but over the last few years i've been looksmaxing.
    As a result, i've had some success off tinder, but only one night stand kind of things.

    Last October i met a girl off tinder who i actually liked talking to. She was one of those fitness/booty girls you see on instagram. Her face wasn't pretty but her body was nice and she was fun to talk to.

    I never really thought about having her as a gf, she had many red flags.
    - Always wore super revealing clothing (Showing bra every time)
    - Addicted to social media
    - Huge sexual past (pretty much a hoe)
    - Uneducated
    - Met off tinder

    Unfortunately, during the time i met her I got let go from my job and my self esteem was super low. As i was unemployed, i began talking to this girl and hanging out. We started going out a lot and all of a sudden we were bf and gf. This lasted until a month ago where she broke up with me. A day after breaking up with me she changed her mind and wanted to go back to dating. The next few weeks we hang out a bit but she is less responsible and i know she is banging other guys. Even when we hang out she is acting super nice to me and saying we should do X and Y in the future. Then a few days later she would just stop talking to me.

    I started getting obsessive and depressed by her shadiness. I used a fake account on instagram to message a guy who i had a feeling was banging her. He told me that he does fuck her and he simply messaged her off instgram to come over and bang (WTF!). I'm outraged.
    I send her a snippet of this conersation and telll her i'm worried i have an STD! She said that she doesn't do that stuff anymore and it was in the past (LIE). I'm furious and call her out on lying. She then tells me she is actually seeing someone. Out of jealous rage i threaten to blackmail her and she tells me. I stalk this guy on instagram and he is taller, better looking and NW1.

    I'm furious. She tells me to stop stalking this guy (My name appeared as having watched his instagram story) and tells me to fuck off. I apologise numerous times for threatening to blackmail her. I offer to call her to say sorry but she says no and deletes and blocks me on all platforms.



    As you can see i was really silly for threatening to black mail her but at the same time i was just so angry jealous and depressed. I can't believe i developed such an attachment to a lying sluty, trashy girl. At the same time i feel so sad and depressed about myself for being short and balding. I feel suicidal even. I can' stop thinking about her to. Obsessing about her. I'd empty my bank account just to have her over and validate me (love and affection and it's ok that i'm balding). Should we just give up if we are genetically inferior?


    sorry for the long post but here is the summary;
    - Never had a gf before but slept with a few girls
    - Met a girl off tinder
    - This girl was not a 'good girl' (big sexual past, social media addict, trashy , uneducated)
    - Lost my job and low self esteem
    - Started liking this girl and messaging her daily, seeing her weekly
    - Became GF and BF
    - Broke up with me
    - Changed mind and still wanted to date
    - Hung out, she was super into me still, talkig to me, saying she wants to do stuff in the future.
    - All of a sudden she stops.
    - Stalk her instagram and find out she is sleeping with another guy, do some investigation and this guy confirms.
    - Call her out on this but she lies to me.
    - Get more angry
    - Few days past, she tells me she is dating another guy
    - Threaten black mail unless she tells me who
    - Guy is tall white and NW1.
    - Feel pathetic and apologize for threatening black mail but feel suicial as my hair is fucked and this guy NW1 is chosen over me.
    - Can't stop thinking of her and my hair and feel depressed


    what to do?
     
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  2. swingline747

    swingline747 Senior Member My Regimen

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    can you find anyone else on tinder?
     
  3. Feelsbadman

    Feelsbadman Established Member

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    no it's hard getting a gf bro
     
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    swingline747 Senior Member My Regimen

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    not talking about a GF. Just girls to have fun with.
     
  5. Capone

    Capone Experienced Member

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    As Usher says “you got it bad” no little slag is worth losing your insanity over. Cut all contact and never speak to her again. Have some respect for yourself.
     
    Yakitori and keepit like this.
  6. Feelsbadman

    Feelsbadman Established Member

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    Hey man i've gone psycho i've messaged a few girls who go to her gym and i'm thinking about paying them to go to the gym with me so she can see i'm with a hotter girl
    what's wrong with me
    should i do this?
     
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  7. Capone

    Capone Experienced Member

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    Definitely not.
     
  8. Feelsbadman

    Feelsbadman Established Member

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    I need to win though. I'm sick of losing. All my life i'v ebeen losing
    short, receding hair, bad genetics.
    All my life. I want to fukcing win for once.
     
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  9. Capone

    Capone Experienced Member

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    You won’t win this one. Like a bar of soap the tighter you squeeze the quicker it will slip out of your hands. Forget about her, easy said than done but it’s the only way. She may come back down the road with a vanny full of ball juice but do you really want that? She’s a slapper.
     
  10. ScaredOfBalding

    ScaredOfBalding Experienced Member My Regimen

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    itsjustsimon Experienced Member My Regimen

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    Lol @ Getting girlfriend off tinder...
     
  12. LosingHairLosingPatience

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    Yeah thats gonna be a no
     
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    OneDay_NW0 Established Member My Regimen

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    If you want a real GF, dont take those Insta-Bitches, which seeking for attention 24/7, because their mindset is fucked up.

    And even on Tinder are a bunch of nice normal girls, but also those bootylicious 'pn me on insta' dumbheads.
     
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    Hangin'on Hair Established Member My Regimen

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    First thing..... get the fuck off instagram. It's retarded and useless. Unless you want your own little TV show. Cause that's all it is.
    Forget about this hoe. The more you stress over her, the shorter and balder you will get.
    Just focus on getting laid for now and forget about relationships. They're overrated. Especially with social media addicted little attention whores.
     
  15. itsjustsimon

    itsjustsimon Experienced Member My Regimen

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    No it’s not. Many are crazy but the ones that are ok are still there just for hookups and attention and that’s it. Women on tinder are not looking for boyfriends.

    Even if they do, when a ‘normal’ 4/10 get 1000 matches in a week only from “hawt bois” ( seen this in real life), her mind goes crazy. It’s like you just come to playboy mansion and hundreds of models wants your dick and nobody outside the mansion will ever know how many you fucked, would you only choose one girl and say that’s it for me? I don’t know you but I doubt.
     
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    itsjustsimon Experienced Member My Regimen

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    Good advice. Instagram is the fakest shit ever existed.
     
  17. swingline747

    swingline747 Senior Member My Regimen

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    winning is just not caring
     
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    tomJ Experienced Member My Regimen

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    I think you should be happy that you wont have to worry about her banging other dudes down the road. That would be much worse if you were married or living together. In my opinion here is how you win:
    Make it seem like you dont care. I personally know someone who was a bit shaken when her long time boyfriend left her and when they ran into each other she turned down his request to go do something together. It hurt him.
    Work on prepping for your future so you have things lined up when you meet that special girl whether it's a month from now or 10 years from now.
     
  19. swingline747

    swingline747 Senior Member My Regimen

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    I would take the money you would have paid her friends to go somewhere with you and just go get some hookers and have some fun.
     
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    kiwipilu Experienced Member My Regimen

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    I was on a dating website not so long ago “”””for fun”””””, I faked one of my pic (just added full head of hairs on my actual face).. I could date (actually f***) quite a bunch of women, BUT when I told them I lied about my pic and this was an old pic of me and now I buzz my hair, most were like “sorry I don’t like bald guys” This is the truth. Pure truth I experienced. Now tbh there were still some girls who like the bald look. I’d say 1/3 of them. .Interistingly enough the ones who did not like the bald look were mostly the hottest girls ;you can easily imagine they have the choice...
     
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