wahoofan22
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Hi guys, I was wasting time on the internet and stumbled across this site today. I'm 35 years old, pretty darn bald (I don't know the technical terms), but I have very thin hair on top, a far-back hairline and a shiny bald spot in the back. I shaved my head down to a buzz a few yeas ago. Anyway, I read some of these posts and it really made me think about what I went through when I started losing my hair around 22 years old or so. I wanted to let you younger guys know that it can, and probably will, get better. You get comfortable with yourself as life goes on.
I lost several great years of my life in my 20's when I was too ashamed to go out and enjoy life. I didn't want any of my friends to see me (especially the girls I went to school with). I broke up with a long term girlfriend that I really loved right before it started to boot. Life was grim. I wore hats all the time. I vividly remember hating getting out of the shower and seeing how it looked. I couldn't go to the pool out of fear of being laughed at. My good friends were always cool about it and never really gave me a hard time.
I was in great shape and worked out all the time. I never gave that up. I would reccomend that you don't either - or start working out. Being physically fit is something that most guys with hair don't have. Plus, chicks dig it.
At one of my lowest points, I met a girl at the bank one day. I couldn't believe she wanted to go out with me. I couldn't hardly bring myself to ask her. After dating for a few months or so, I asked her (and it took all my courage) if she would still love me if I lost all my hair. Her answer was 'of course, don't be silly'. and that did it for me. We've been married for almost 8 years now and have 2 great kids. Life is good.
I post this message for you young guys who think this will never get any better. It can, and probably will. Try not to waste some of your best years in hiding as I did. Age will catch up with everyone someday. I ran into a guy who I didn't like in high school the other day and he was WAY balder than me. I thought it was really hilarious as he was one of the people I didn't want to see when I was going through the rough times. His must have sucked worse than mine.
I would reccommend shaving your head. There are some benefits. You don't really need to dry your hair much and it cuts 5 minutes or so out of your morning routine...though I would really like to use a comb again..it's been years .
Keep your chins up fellas. Once you get older and settled, people don't care that much. Heck, half the guys on my block are bald, married, have kids....really normal lives. You can too. Just have some confidence in who you are and what you want to accomplish.
Best of luck
I lost several great years of my life in my 20's when I was too ashamed to go out and enjoy life. I didn't want any of my friends to see me (especially the girls I went to school with). I broke up with a long term girlfriend that I really loved right before it started to boot. Life was grim. I wore hats all the time. I vividly remember hating getting out of the shower and seeing how it looked. I couldn't go to the pool out of fear of being laughed at. My good friends were always cool about it and never really gave me a hard time.
I was in great shape and worked out all the time. I never gave that up. I would reccomend that you don't either - or start working out. Being physically fit is something that most guys with hair don't have. Plus, chicks dig it.
At one of my lowest points, I met a girl at the bank one day. I couldn't believe she wanted to go out with me. I couldn't hardly bring myself to ask her. After dating for a few months or so, I asked her (and it took all my courage) if she would still love me if I lost all my hair. Her answer was 'of course, don't be silly'. and that did it for me. We've been married for almost 8 years now and have 2 great kids. Life is good.
I post this message for you young guys who think this will never get any better. It can, and probably will. Try not to waste some of your best years in hiding as I did. Age will catch up with everyone someday. I ran into a guy who I didn't like in high school the other day and he was WAY balder than me. I thought it was really hilarious as he was one of the people I didn't want to see when I was going through the rough times. His must have sucked worse than mine.
I would reccommend shaving your head. There are some benefits. You don't really need to dry your hair much and it cuts 5 minutes or so out of your morning routine...though I would really like to use a comb again..it's been years .
Keep your chins up fellas. Once you get older and settled, people don't care that much. Heck, half the guys on my block are bald, married, have kids....really normal lives. You can too. Just have some confidence in who you are and what you want to accomplish.
Best of luck