You get what you give. I'm no exception to that rule either...Originally Posted by Beingbaldsucksass
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You get what you give. I'm no exception to that rule either...
Lets face it, confidence will never frame your face properly....a girl can't run her fingers through your confidence.
sounds like you need to seek help from a psychiatrist not an internet forum. You seem to have a very bleak outlook on life; not just your hair situation, life in general. Seeing an actual doctor would do you much better than taking advice from people on an internet forum.
Yeah I've seen a shrink, no help. The shrink isn't helpful 'cause he can't really fix any of the problems I have. That's a big problem. Anyone who says I have a bleak outlook on life should try living my life for like a month and you'd be depressed too. Not being only physically deformed but also not being able to speak properly is a massive obstacle when trying to bond relationships...
Bugger.
i'm unsure of all your problems..but regardless you have it better than a lot of people on this planet. try looking at the positive side of things instead of just the negative. For example...you can read and write. You have access to the internet (which a lot of people on the planet do not). You are not starving. You have access to food, water, and doctors. Hell you even have enough money to blow on products to try and save your hair (which is not necessary to live). You say you dont speak properly; but there are people out there who cant see, hear, walk, or go the the restroom on their on. not to mention the people that don't have arms and hands to even type
It sucks bro, i am in a similar situation, well atleast you have good shaped head for going bald. You are right a shrink will not be able to fix your problems, as he is not able to relate to you, someone from HLT can. Expressing yourself is truly not the main obstacle when trying to bond relationships because i know someone who is quite an introvert and yet he is able to have succesful relationships. Its just that hairloss is our downfall that is all.
Life is rough man, and it sure is unfair and unkind for most of the people on this planet. I agree with what Bob is saying, although it sometimes seem cliche to say so, but you must try to look at the things that you do have in your life. I know this is easier said than done but take a look at this: http://d.yimg.com/gg/u/aa0518b21b29e...9e465cf83.jpeg
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I gotta remember that when I'm in an embarrassing situation because of my speech impediment the next time... it will definitely make me feel better to realize that there are actually ppl that are starving in this world. Thanks guys!
Bugger.
A Psychiatrist isn't there to fix your problems for you. They are there to change how you look at things, change your thought process. If you can't solve your problems ( most of us can't!) then you have to look at how you approach things, and try to change them. It isn't easy, but then the "easy" thing is to not change in any way. I'm sorry you're so miserable, I can only empathise. I've been suicidal, I spent years hating myself. I haven't suddenly grown 4 plus inches, or won the lottery, or cleared the financial debts I have. I have changed how I think about them, and stopped punishing myself for them.
I don't really appreciate sarcasm...What exactly are you looking for? A miracle? I don't think so. Last time I even bother trying to make someone feel better on this forum.
Sorry about the sarcasm, but did you really think that was the first time I hear the "there are ppl who are so far worse off than you, consider yourself lucky" etc. It just does not help.
Bugger.
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