So I went to a Valentines party last night and there were plenty of single girls to interact with. I let all of my inhibitions loose and did exactly what all the 'experts' tell us to do. I was confident, I was funny, I was engaging... I did everything! I was practically the life of the party.
But the entire time people just kept pointing out how bald I am and how old I look and they kept laughing at me.
I am coming to the conclusion that there is really no difference in how I behave, no technique I can use, no matter how outgoing/fun/confident/interesting I try to be I am just "the bald one" - that's what they kept calling me - "the bald one". Even though I made them laugh, even though they kept giving me attention, even though I single handedly kept the party going at times, I was still "the bald one". A big freaking joke to them, like a clown.
Anytime other guys were funny or interesting, the girls all flocked to them and gave them lots of attention and talked to them and stared at them. The guys with hair were doing the exact same things I was, but the girls didn't respond to me, they kept their distance.